Update on us

[fences]

Wow, that is a lot to handle. You are not selfish at all. (})

[Deleted]

BIG <hugs> Becca. I'm so sorry. You're doing AMAZING. I agree with the others; please let us know if there's any way we can help.

[protozoa]

I'm so sorry for all you are going through, but glad you have a good support system in place. Don't hesitate to ask any of your friends and family for anything you need even if it feels selfish. I am sure they are more than happy to help.

I hope your H's treatment and recovery goes well and he is able to fully co-parent with you soon.

[Deleted]

I'm so sorry about what your family is going through Becca and will be hoping for a speedy and full recovery for your husband.

[Deleted]

Big hugs to you and your family. I am sorry that you are going through all of this. Best wishes for the return of good health for your husband and a healthy baby boy!

[definitelyO]

huge HUGS! sending you lots of thoughts and prayers for your Dh's quick and hopefully full recovery. it's a lot to manage but it's good to hear that you have a great circle of friends and family that are there for you!

[Willis Jackson]

I'm so sorry you're going through this.

[niemand88f]

I'm so sorry you're going through this. I wish you the best for the coming months.

[heyrebekah]

Becca, that all sounds so difficult. My thoughts are with you. ((hugs))

[Becca]

Dec 20, 2012 9:33:03 GMT -5 CloudBee said:

A friend at work had a brain aneurysm this summer, and she was in that zombie state off and on for just a couple weeks after surgery. Once her body started to heal, she was back to her old self and her personality is the same as it was. I hope your husband experiences the same, and soon.

Thanks for a positive story

Last time, the personality-change effects lasted a long time. I felt like I was living with a stranger for months. I am still not sure if he eventually got back to normal, or I just got used to the new normal. Either way, it took about 9-12 months before he was really back to where I needed him to be. (and then surprise! #3 snuck in there)

I just really, really hope the road isn't as long this time.

[Deleted]

Tons of hugs, Becca. I think about your family often. Wishing your H a speedy and full recovery.

[arch01]

You have amazing strengths. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family-we're here to support you too!!

[dr.girlfriend]

Huge hugs, from me. There's probably still so much swelling and neurotoxicity from bleeding right now, I hope things get better much more quickly than they seem they might. Your family will be in my thoughts.

[jaylea]

Becca, I remember you from the WMs board on the Nest. You have had so much thrown at you. But you are handling it with true grace. I am so glad you have such strong support. Huge hugs and good thoughts being sent your way.

[Deleted]

Lots of hugs Becca. We're here anytime you need to talk things out.

[Deleted]

I'm so sorry Becca. Life has just thrown more crap at you in the last two years than most people have to deal with in a lifetime. I think of you a lot and pray for you and your family. I really hope everything works out from here on out. You are a strong woman and your family is lucky to have you. Be kind to yourself!