Oh this is flameworthy. I have one grandma and I cannot stand her, she and I have a terrible relationship (she has a bad relationship with pretty much my entire family but it's particularly bad with me because I don't make pity calls or visits like everyone else does. She is mean and always has been). My mother usually picks up something for me to gift her and I pay her back. I don't even know what I will be "giving" her this year.
My only grandma is getting a Coach wallet from my brother and I this year. I got her a burberry wallet a few years ago and when my mom asked her why she wasnt using it, she said it was too expensive. My mom bets she gave it away since she always gives away shit that we give her. I love my grandma but if she gives this away than no more!
MILs parents are getting a 40" LED TV. They still have their clunker from years ago.
Step FILs mom is getting a box of her favorite (cheap) wine. They decided no gifts this year and H insists she will hate any other brand...
H's grandparents (real dad died a few years ago) - We tried to buy their dinner at Red Lobster but she was getting upset so we let her have it so we're going to mail them a gc to red lobster lol.