I have a really dumb question after reading that thread on ML. Some people seemed horrified about having a razor near their butthole. Are people referring to shaving inner butt cheeks or actually right near the anus?
I shave mine because it seems awkward to just stop shaving at a certain spot. Plus it makes me feel cleaner after going to the bathroom. I never feel prickles if I'm just sitting or walking. It's not like my vag feels prickles when it is time to shave it again.
It it simple to do. Just pull your cheek to the side and swipe your razor. You aren't actually shaving the hole (can hair even grow right there?). I don't see why people are so scared. Shaving my vag is like 20x scarier.
Okay, help me out with this. If a man is getting frequent sex, regular bj's, and meals, does he really care if your butt hole is shaved?
It's not really about that. I don't want a butt bush.
Why did you include meals?
Back in the day, before my house went to hell in a handbasket, meals made H happy. If I made grilled pork chops or chocolate chip cookies, he was a happy man.
Post by MixedBerryJam on Dec 29, 2012 18:48:22 GMT -5
Wait, what? ... this is a thing? I don't shave down there; I don't wax down there, I don't nair down there. I am rather hirsute and you know how I handle it? I wear shorts to the beach. I cannot imagine getting an ingrown hair down there!
ETA: On second thought, I do have two hairs growing out of one nipple that I pluck regularly. That is enough of an owie for me!
Post by MixedBerryJam on Dec 29, 2012 19:11:13 GMT -5
By the time waxing became a thing I was beyond caring, frankly. But yeah, even if I had Giselle's body, you'd never see me in a bikini. Plus, I don't go to the beach very often.
I hardly have any hair there to shave. And am I the only one with enough of a bubble butt to not be able to get a razor in there? Even if I grab a cheek and pull, it's not going to flatten out enough to shave.
I shave it. The hair isn't the same texture as pubes. It's lighter in color & finer texture. But it's def present right on my lower inner butt cheeks. A few quick swipes while squatting, & it's gone.
My butt is too big and my cheeks are too close together for anyone to notice if I had hair there unless they were specifically digging around in there or examining me when bent over. Which I guess could happen when doing it doggy style, but that would also require the lights to be on. Given that lights on doggy style happens maybe 1-2 times a year (if that), I am not going to start getting in the habit of doing it for DH.
I have never heard of a butt bush and I certainly don't have one.
I also don't know what people are talking about when they say "I don't know when to just stop shaving when I shave up front so I keep going". Huh? When I have shaved all my pubes, I have stopped shaving when there stops being hair. I don't see how digging around inside of my butt crack is a natural progression of shaving my pubes. It's not like it's one big long strip of hair that goes all the way from front to back.
Am I weird or what? lol. Maybe I just need to thank my lucky stars I'm blonde and of German descent?
I'm going to sit beside buckybells on this one. I have a massive ass and very little hair in that area. Shaving there isn't going to happen. We do it doggy style all the time and I've never heard complaints, and my DH is upfront enough to tell me those things.
At one point on my life, yes. Shaved from front to back because, yes, it seems weird to have a shaved vag and a hairy butt hole. I giggle thinking of what that would look like from my H's point of view during oral sex, ha ha!
No, with post partum hemorrhoids, no. No I barely have the courage to shave my vag area. No way I'm going near those butt-nuts with a sharp object.