Update: the house I was looking at...

[kwynn]

It's for sale or rent...it needs WAY, way too much work. I chickened out and crossed it off my list.

I'm alone and work 80 hours a week and don't currently live in the state where I'm relocating. It seems like a huge stressor to try to live in a place that needs major, major work. And I don't have any family help on things really as far as handyman skills, or even just general assistance.

So it's a no-go. I'm bummed. I'll figure something out...the right fit for me will emerge somewhere!

[Deleted]

That's a bummer. I'm sure you'll find the right place for you soon!

[limey]

Well, that sucks that it didn't work out. But it sounds like the right decision for you.