Going to gym over lunch and it is going to hurt because I haven't worked out in 2 weeks because of vacation. Plus it will be flooded with the New Year's resolution crowd all thinking this is the year they get in shape. Luckily 95% of them will fade away in about 2-3 weeks...still annoying.
I had a boyfriend for about an hour before he dumped me for having an anxiety attack on NYE. I figure my 2013 can only go up from here!
WTF? What happened there?
Well I suffer from extreme anxiety. And I think I was overwhelmed by meeting his new friends, going to the party last minute, trying to find a "futuristic" costume. Then we decided to become official and I think it was all just too much and triggered and anxiety attack. It tends to give me a flight symptom where I need to leave and we couldn't find me a cab and then it was just a HUGE mess. Anyways he couldn't hang, and I sort of understand, but it's like no one is perfect. I'm not really upset about it or anything.
And some figure that raising their kid is the priority not dating or focusing on a relationship. If only more people thought that way we might have fewer cases of abuse.
Apparently there is a correlation between single parents dating and abuse? Nice. Way to be open minded and accepting! Fuck you very much! Have a fucked up day!
That really pissed me off too!
Add me to the XH being an asshat group. Yesterday and the day before I'd offered XH a visit with P since he hadn't seen him since Christmas. He told me he was too busy working (which I didn't REALLY believe but whatevs).
My friend and her H passed him by their ranch (XH lives by their ranch) around 2 in the afternoon with some chick in his truck (not his FI). So I couldn't help myself and I called him a lying liar who lies.
Happy Birthday! Don't lawyers have two martini lunches anyway? That's what my PR professor always said.
Thanks. Yes we drink a lot at work but typically not till like 4-5. I plan on being drunk by then. Then my coworkers are taking me to a happy hour. Could be a very drunken bday!!!!
Wow, what kind of work do you do that you can be drunk by 4:00? Bartender?
I think I'm turning into a hermit. I had plans for NYE that I blew off cause I just wanted to be alone. That may be because I had spent the last 10 days before that with family. I needed a break from people. I hate people.
LOL. Maybe if you weren't such a judgmental twat people would like you more and then you would like THEM more? Or, you can continue making asinine assumptions about single moms and dating and be a miserable hermit. your choice!
Thanks. Yes we drink a lot at work but typically not till like 4-5. I plan on being drunk by then. Then my coworkers are taking me to a happy hour. Could be a very drunken bday!!!!
Wow, what kind of work do you do that you can be drunk by 4:00? Bartender?
Really? People are always shocked when I tell them I was born at home, which meant no drugs for my mom. My midwife was lazy, though, and my birth certificate wasn't turned in until I was 5, so there is NO record of me being alive until 5.
My friend and her H passed him by their ranch (XH lives by their ranch) around 2 in the afternoon with some chick in his truck (not his FI). So I couldn't help myself and I called him a lying liar who lies.
Really? People are always shocked when I tell them I was born at home, which meant no drugs for my mom. My midwife was lazy, though, and my birth certificate wasn't turned in until I was 5, so there is NO record of me being alive until 5.
Wow, strange!
Yeah, I could never be president. LOL. I had to write to my "senator" (really, someone who works for him) to help me get a passport. Apparently it was suspicious. I had no problem getting a social security card, though. Working here when they doubt you are who you say you are, fine. Trying to LEAVE America when they doubt you are who you say you are-not okay.
Add me to the XH being an asshat group. Yesterday and the day before I'd offered XH a visit with P since he hadn't seen him since Christmas. He told me he was too busy working (which I didn't REALLY believe but whatevs).
My friend and her H passed him by their ranch (XH lives by their ranch) around 2 in the afternoon with some chick in his truck (not his FI). So I couldn't help myself and I called him a lying liar who lies.
::picks jaw up off the floor::
My jaw is still shut because I am no longer shocked by his fuckery. He sucks. /gavel!
My friend and her H passed him by their ranch (XH lives by their ranch) around 2 in the afternoon with some chick in his truck (not his FI). So I couldn't help myself and I called him a lying liar who lies.
That didn't take long.
Conveniently for him, his FI lives four hours away. My friend's in-laws (who have the ranch adjacent to XH's) always see him with random women.
I had a boyfriend for about an hour before he dumped me for having an anxiety attack on NYE. I figure my 2013 can only go up from here!
Obviously he was not a good boyfriend if one little anxiety attack sent him running. Sorry this happened.
Thanks AK! And I agree that's why I'm not upset about it. I can see how it would freak someone out, but if he doesn't even want to try to understand then, NEXT!
Obviously he was not a good boyfriend if one little anxiety attack sent him running. Sorry this happened.
Thanks AK! And I agree that's why I'm not upset about it. I can see how it would freak someone out, but if he doesn't even want to try to understand then, NEXT!
There are plenty of men out there who will try to understand your anxiety and want to be supportive when you have an attack, not run away. My mom and I both have anxiety attacks (for us they are situational), and my dad has been supporting my mom through her anxiety for 42 years. I remember the first time I had an anxiety attack in front of fi. The next day I was embarrassed and went to talk to him about it. He said plenty of people have anxiety about different things, and it is part of who I am and doesn't change the fact that he loves me -- all of me including the me that has anxiety attacks.
Am I the only one side-eyeing bringing a bottle of champagne to work and planning to be drunk before leaving for happy hour?
I'm a drinker, and I've had drinks over lunch at other jobs, but I haven't been impaired at work since the summer before my junior year in college, when I telemarketed. And I was a damn good drunk telemarketer!
I dunno. It just sounds like a recipe for disaster. And correct me if I'm wrong but didn't Emma have some work performance-related issues within the past few months? If I'm correct, then I think that's an extra good reason not to crack that bottle open.
Nope I wasnt kidding and my job performance issues were resolved as the managing partner came to me before break to let me know that he spoke with my boss about his behavior AND I was the only attorney to receive a performance bonus but thanks for the concern. Cheers!!!