S/O sexy bucket list...

[kdrake8]

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H and I don't discuss these things and we do not know each other's number. I am not particularly jealous and neither is he, but I feel better not knowing.

[dojo]

Doing them once when the mood is right and being totally into doing them regularly are two different things. Don't stress, but you're feeling like your physical relationship could use some work, then take a look at the list, pick something easy to start with and make it happen! Buying new underthings definitely works around these parts.

[kdrake8]

Jan 2, 2013 17:14:05 GMT -5 dragonflybelle said:

H and I don't discuss these things and we do not know each other's number. I am not particularly jealous and neither is he, but I feel better not knowing.

Yeah, I prob should not have even gone there - but honestly I thought his would be pretty tame... And the ones he did aren't totally insane by any means, just a few surprised me.

I need to get it together. New underthings would be a good idea maybe - I hate buying things in "ginormous breast feeding" size though. Maybe I need to suck it up. It IS the semi annual sale at VS right now lol

[angiekay84]

Kdrake, your DH would probably love to look at big boobies (BFing or not, big boobs are big boobs to guys!) in a pretty new night time outfit.

Also, I've done about half the list and the more wild ones weren't with my DH. I think that is because a lot of those things are for an instant thrill of "I did it!" rather than them being oh so much fun, you know? Like in a car....um, yeah I've done it once or twice, (not with DH) because now? If I can actually get around to having sex, it's going to be in a bed where it's comfy. In public? Um, it was at a park and I got an ant bite on my ass, not fun! I think a lot of them are like that. We can say we "did" them,....but I wouldn't do some of them again.

[kdrake8]

Angiekay those were super good points - thank you!

I can agree with the car thing totally too. Maybe it's time for something sexier than a clip down nursing bra lol

[hass2001]

I'm sexually awkward too kdrake. Mostly because H is really good and he's so into the kinky stuff but I'm not really and it makes me uncomfortable because I know thats what he really wants. Ugh I wish I wasn't like that and I could just go for it!!

[kdrake8]

Kindred spirits, Hass! So awkward bc I did a lot of stuff with an ex that I don't do with DH. Idk, makes no sense.

I wish I could go for it too. We need sex therapy lol

[sunshineluv]

Jan 2, 2013 18:57:02 GMT -5 kdrake8 said:

Kindred spirits, Hass! So awkward bc I did a lot of stuff with an ex that I don't do with DH. Idk, makes no sense.

I wish I could go for it too. We need sex therapy lol

Ditto this for me.

And I have learned not to ask stuff about dh's past, his is way way tamer than mine, but I get jealous.