Apparently Uncle Twat somehow got Power of Attorney over my grandma in 2006, meaning that the POA my mom has is useless since it was signed in 2004. I guess the nursing home needs some info from him in order to process the Medicaid stuff for my grandma and since he's a complete douche pickle, he won't return their calls...chances are my grandma's benefits are going to be revoked like any day now.
My mom is on the phone with our attorney now to see if we can cut some deal where they can have whateverTF they want, so long as he transfers POA to her. Cross your fingers...this shit gets more and more twisted every goddamn day.
And if I ever lose my mind and prepare to throw my 90 year old, Alzheimer's-ridden mother onto the streets in favor of some spite and a 100+ year old house that needs to be thrown down, just shoot me.
Post by OrangePixyStix on May 29, 2012 13:25:19 GMT -5
How infuriating! Crossing fingers that everything works out for your grandma and that karma kicks Uncle Twat's ass very soon. I am so sorry things keep unfolding into a bigger shitstorm, which I truly hope passes quickly and leaves your grandma taken care of.
**hugs** Duff, I am so sorry that this keeps getting more complicated for you and your grandma. I hope that your uncle gets his shit together and that your grandma is still taken care of.
Thanks for the kind words. I just don't get it. I mean, I understand that people have falling outs with their parents and whatnot, but that was NEVER the case between my uncle and his mother. I really don't know what the fuck his deal is.
Post by louietunes on May 29, 2012 13:33:07 GMT -5
Having similar problems in my family history, this whole situation just infuriates me. I don't understand how anyone becomes so underhanded, entitled, and selfish! Honestly, how do they sleep at night?
Ugh, I want to punch Uncle Twat in the face. I'm so sorry you and your mom have to deal with all this extra bullshit on top of just doing what is best for your grandmother. I hope the POA situation gets worked out quickly!