H told me..

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He's been thinking about the "big snip" (as he calls it) for a while now.


I didn't even have to ask him

[darkling_glory]

:Y:

That is really great. Do you want him to do it?

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I do. We have decided we're never-evers. I told him about the Essure procedure and he said nah, he would get snipped because its safer.

[darkling_glory]

Well then, AWESOME!

That is super exciting. Are you going to eschew any birth control for yourself then? Sorry, being nosy. Not sure what you currently use or if you want to talk about it.

[sapphire bou]

Awe! How thoughtful!

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Lol, no I'll answer .

For the first few months, I more than likely will. I like my BCP now because they regulate all my hormones and crap and I feel so awesome. I may still eventually get the Essure procedure done after his vasectomy

[OrangePixyStix]

Lucky!!

I wish ,my H were that forthcoming, he doesn't admit to thinking about doing that unless I bring it up first. He's on board but not looking forward to it, but we are going to give it a bit more time before making that appointment. Congrats on having him on the same page as you, that's fantastic!

[blondemoment123]

That's good news!

[louietunes]

:Y:

D won't until he's older. I'm going to try to talk him into it again when he turns 35 (two years).

[darkling_glory]

Thanks!

I was curious because when my IUD thing failed we talked about hubby getting the snip. The thing is, I hate getting a period so that's why I wanted an IUD and why I don't mind taking bc continuously.

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OPS, we're going to wait too..Just to make sure he is 110% sure about it.

His friend at work asked "Well what if you change your mind? What if you end up wanting kids after its done?" H looked at him and said "There is always adoption."

::swoon::

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darkling, that's a good point! I remember my life before BC. I was a moody bitchy teenager who hated life one week a month. Now I feel like a normal person lol.

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Will your Dr. do it?

I don't know how old he is butmy bff and her H are never-evers. Her H at 29 went to a couple doctors and tell all told him because he didn't have any children and he was still pretty young they wouldn't do it.

[shorty20]

Sweet, I wish my hubby would offer! I know his boys can swim since he already has a kid.

Hell, I don't even know if I'm capable of having kids. If I've been taking BC for all these years and didn't even need it, that would really suck.