I think it's ridiculous, but I do get a bit sick of the "you don't have kids (yet) so you can't POSSIBLY have any insight into this". I gets old.
People on the April board use STM in their titles a lot. Honestly I don't think its how you're lookiing at it, its more like 'what did you do/use/experience'
That thread is insane. I don't understand why it bothers anyone when there is STM in the title. At all.
I get where you're coming from, imoan, but I also don't think just putting STM in the title means that anyone is being negative about FTM experience. People are too sensitive.