WWYD re this baby shower

[monarch]

So, back in November, a friend told a few of us verbally to save the date for her baby shower. For this Saturday. I have not yet received an invitation. I believe that the honoree has yet to give our contact info to the person throwing her the shower. In 5 days. I checked with a girlfriend and she's not received any info yet either. No time, location, etc.

Now, I know I can ask my friend. But I havent spoken to her since Christmas Eve. It's for a third baby whom I've already given a gift. ( I also bought a small gift to bring to the shower). I did save the date by keeping my calendar open, but assume i will need a babysitter.

So, would you contact her, or let it ride? I kinda want to see how long she will let it go, lol. I will absolutely attend if I can get a babysitter but I can't get a babysitter without knowing what time the event occurs. Is this bitchy of me?

[mrsbro]

I wouldn't contact her, maybe it was cancelled?

[IrishBelle]

I'd wait it out and if doesn't happen or you don't receive an invite, I'd visit after the baby comes and take the gift to your friend then.

[monarch]

Thx. The baby was born preterm, so I've met him already. ( shower was scheduled after he was born). One of my other friends actually saw the hostess a few weeks ago at a coffee shop and she mentioned that she was still waiting for some contact info. I guess I'll make other plans! I feel like I should ask her if it's been cancelled first. I owe her a phone call but we've been on opposite travel schedules the past few weeks.

[Deleted]

People make me crazy with their disorganization.

At this point I would make other plans.