I feel bad, but...

[Cricket0619]

H is sick with a cold and feels pretty crappy, but I am really fertile! Should I go make him have sex? lol. WWYD? We need to do it today and tomorrow because he is leaving tomorrow until Sunday.

[awick14]

I say put on something sexy and jump him!


(Or at least that's what I would do, an have done.)

[belovedbride07]

If he's like my H, feeling crappy definitely does not preclude having sex, unless he's feeling really sick. ;D I say go for it!

[Cricket0619]

He thinks he has a fever too. He can just lay there, I'm fine with that for tonight

[sunflower22]

As long as he's not vomiting? Lol

[daisy24342]

Ha I had this problem as well. Just seduce him.....or make him lie there

[Cricket0619]

I just heard him get in the shower. Hopefully he will feel better and be ready when he gets out.

[Cricket0619]

So, tonight isn't going to happen . Hopefully he will feel better tomorrow and now he might not go out of town until Friday, so at least we have tomorrow and probably Friday! Stupid flu season!

[awick14]

((Hugs))

[lola]

Ladies. Jesus Christ. Calm yourselves. If any husband in America (or even Canada for our northern posters) came up in here all "my wife has a fever but I NEEEEED sex should I make her do it???" his ass would get torn apart. Tongue in cheek or not.

Some of you have lost your damn minds while TTC.

[Cheesecake]

Jan 9, 2013 23:55:27 GMT -5 lola said:

Ladies. Jesus Christ. Calm yourselves. If any husband in America (or even Canada for our northern posters) came up in here all "my wife has a fever but I NEEEEED sex should I make her do it???" his ass would get torn apart. Tongue in cheek or not.

Some of you have lost your damn minds while TTC.

This!

[vmars]

I agree, if I am not in the mood or he isn't we don't do it, even if I am fertile. I think we should still be having fun even if it's to make a baby.

[Cricket0619]

Oh God. I can be bummed about it. H travels a lot for work too and so it's not always easy for timing.

[Cricket0619]

And last night when he said he couldn't I didn't throw a fit. I told him thats ok and I was sorry he felt so shitty and I hope he feels better.

[FastHands]

NO. You must seek permission before being disappointed, or else face immediate deportation to CrazyTown.

[FastHands]

Same. I don't imagine her crying in the closet because she couldn't have sex with her husband.

But when you only have a few good days, you want to make 'em count, and being bummed when you can't is totally understandable.

Besides, you can't put being a parenthood on hold when you're sick, so this is very fitting practice.

[sunflower22]

Jan 10, 2013 10:16:05 GMT -5 swizz said:

I guess I just always assume everyone is like 75% joking and 25% serious, lol.

Me too, I didn't think this was a serious vent, lol.

[Cricket0619]

Jan 10, 2013 10:26:26 GMT -5 FastHands said:

Same. I don't imagine her crying in the closet because she couldn't have sex with her husband.

But when you only have a few good days, you want to make 'em count, and being bummed when you can't is totally understandable.

Besides, you can't put being a parenthood on hold when you're sick, so this is very fitting practice.

lol! and thank you Fast and Swizz!

[FastHands]

If only there were a way to know for sure, like with something in the OP to suggest that she were laughing, and not even silently...or some sort of small picture showing a smiley face used in follow-up posts.

...Oh wait...

[Cricket0619]

Jan 10, 2013 10:27:45 GMT -5 sunflower22 said:

Jan 10, 2013 10:16:05 GMT -5 swizz said:

I guess I just always assume everyone is like 75% joking and 25% serious, lol.

Me too, I didn't think this was a serious vent, lol.

That is why my OP had an lol in it and I was laughing at some of the responses you all had too. I am admitting I was bummed, but it wasn't like I was going to force him down and make him do it and cry myself to sleep over it.

[Cricket0619]

Jan 10, 2013 10:09:35 GMT -5 FastHands said:

NO. You must seek permission before being disappointed, or else face immediate deportation to CrazyTown.

You get me!! lol

[thoseareradishes]

In her original post, she was asking what to do to get her husband to have sex even though he was sick.

I took it as she wanted it, too bad for him. Not as a "oh I'm bummed" vent.

[lola]

I'm not saying you can't be bummed or whatever. What I am saying is that comments like, "It's cool, he doesn't have to participate he can just lay there," don't imply a whole lot of "lolzzzzzz!" and shit.

Swizz - Why were you once included in a post about who is the meanest poster on MM? A link was posted recently and I was all because you always seem so nice around here! I know this question doesn't belong in this post, but I'm running off to a meeting and only had a sec!

[FastHands]

Oh please. Public flogging for joking about sex?

[lo]

Seriously!

[lola]

Oh. Oh my. LOL! Well, I guess that explains it!

[daisy24342]

Jan 10, 2013 10:16:05 GMT -5 swizz said:

I guess I just always assume everyone is like 75% joking and 25% serious, lol.

This. I just had to jump in cause there are days it just doesn't seem fun ( after a year and a half) but we try our best to keep it hot/fun. Sometimes it just isn't.