Do you ever just make out with H/SO

[janehickey]

Or just have sex?

H doesn't understand that sometimes I want to be affectionate without having sex. I'm not a fan of quickies all the time and honestly with the kids that's all we can fit in.

Am I weird? Does this make sense? How can I make H understand this?


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[takeonyou]

No. If mh and I make out, I want some ass. He feels the same. But mh is pretty affectionate anyway. I get toungue kisses everyday, but not full on make out sessions, hugs, ass grabs, etc.

[darnkatz]

Yes. You're just going to have to flat out tell him. My H didn't really get it until I broke down and told him. It's made our marriage that much better.

[hellonurse]

Not really, but that's mostly my doing. I'm just not very touchy/feely.

[SJ]

No. We kiss without having sex, but not make out sessions.

[Deleted]

Once in a blue moon we still do...especially when we are out on a "date". We'll make out in the between places for example. We do lots of quickies too. I'm not picky

[sillygoosegirl]

Not really. Unfortunately, if I don't want sex, it seems like I have to nip it in the bud, of DH gets super annoying about it. We've talked about it--a lot--but nothing ever really changes. The whole making out without sex thing seems to be a better idea in theory than in reality.

[greekypie]

I wish we did. I have this complaint on a regular basis.

[gibbinator]

Jan 10, 2013 19:54:36 GMT -5 SJ said:

No. We kiss without having sex, but not make out sessions.

This. Making out leads to sex, whether or not that was the intent

[cowboyjoe]

My husband would not understand this concept.

[KaraOrNot]

Nope.

[janehickey]

Jan 10, 2013 20:09:55 GMT -5 jenny1980 said:

No. Waste of time lol.

This is basically what he says. I find it's hard to find a private moment from the kids! If we could I guess I wouldn't really have a complaint about it.


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[bunnysmom]

I really like make out sessions but we don't do them very often. I guess DH doesn't see the point and we're also lazy, so we never make the time for it.

[yellowbrkrd]

Nope, it always leads to more.

[chessie]

Sometimes we do.

[auberge]

No
We peck/kiss each other alot but if we're making out, it leads to sex.

[Deleted]

Jan 10, 2013 20:09:55 GMT -5 jenny1980 said:

No. Waste of time lol.

lol. Ditto. No sense giving everybody blue balls if you aren't a guilty catholic teenager.

[heyrebekah]

LOL that this is asked by someone with "hickey" in their name.

[jigsy]

The only time we do this is if we want to get a little riled up, but cant follow through right away. Sometimes it is fun to really anticipate sex. I find a little make-out then going out for the evening leads to some nice sexy time.

[Deleted]

Jan 10, 2013 20:05:09 GMT -5 greekypie said:

I wish we did. I have this complaint on a regular basis.

Ditto. DH just does not getting and I find it really irritating.

[phunluvin82]

Jan 10, 2013 19:50:12 GMT -5 hellonurse said:

Not really, but that's mostly my doing. I'm just not very touchy/feely.

Same with me. My H is much more into hugging, kissing, cuddling than I am. Is that weird? I'm more like, "are we doing this or what?...let's get this show on road," lol.

[HoneySpider]

Jan 10, 2013 19:54:36 GMT -5 SJ said:

No. We kiss without having sex, but not make out sessions.

Same here

[Deleted]

No never.

[whitepicketfence]

Sometimes, but not lately. Between our two schedules, we don't see much of each so when we do have a chance to be intimate, we typically both want sex instead of just making out.