I was out last night with friends and one of them, who I adore, kept fixating on me being single and told me to "just stop looking" (we were NOT talking about my dating life at all, this just came out of her mouth). She was drunk and, since I adore her, the only response I could muster was "if the biggest problem I have, in my world, is not having a date, I think I'm doing pretty damn well!"
Post by jojoandleo on Jan 12, 2013 10:47:02 GMT -5
Ugh, sorry your ex sucks. Do you have any good boarding places near you? Ours is AWESOME! It's run by a vet and they have webcams so you can watch your dogs. it's indoor/outdoor and they separate them into playgroups by size. My dogs LOVE it! They give you little reportcards with pictures afterwards.
Mags-Yay! I hear that movie is awesome.
I watched "One for the Money" on netflix and now I want to re-read ALL of my Janet evanovich "Plum series" books. They are fast reads and silly little books, but I love them! too bad school starts Monday and all I have read for so far is evidence.
I am still annoyed with the girl I lent my family law book to. 50 pages I have to read. FIFTY! GAH!
We're just having coffee and putting together some furniture that came from Overstock yesterday. It was supposed to be 75 and sunny today, but it is foggy and chilly this morning. Perfect pj weather.
Post by bullygirl979 on Jan 12, 2013 11:13:49 GMT -5
My random is a random/vent. My sister came over last night to drop me off some food (super sweet) and she invited me out with her friends. I declined and she shouldn't understand why I wouldn't want to go. I tried explaining to her that I was having a really hard time leaving the house and that everything just seemed too overwhelming right now. She looked at me like I have three heads. I just want people to understand :/
I have a horrible head/chest cold and feel awful. Instead of laying on the couch, I helped FI take down Christmas lights from outside and hang 2 light fixtures. I've been oogling one of the lights for over a year and I'm so excited we finally bought it! Now I plan to nap on the couch until we go to a tasting at our reception hall.
Sorry mp that your X was an ass. Sorry doris you had to deal with your friend. Have fun at the movies mags! MCC enjoy your niece! DL- what kind of furniture did you buy from overstock? jojo- i LOVE the plum series and think i might watch one for the money today now that you mentioned it
Met a friend for HH at the bar she works at yesterday and only paid $5 for the six drinks I had, I tipped very well as a result! Love drinking at her bar, so much fun! I then came home and passed out, missing a text from another friend that wanted to meet for drinks...bummer
Going with one of my besties today to get our tarot cards read since we couldn't last weekend, I am so excited to see her and "find out" my future...lol
Been talking to my crush a lot lately, flirting is finally starting to feel normal to me. Progress!
I have been separated from XH for 19 months Last night when I asked him to see someone to discuss co-parenting he started laying out guidelines for when he would take me back.
Post by glitzyglow on Jan 12, 2013 12:03:03 GMT -5
mp - I'd be super pissed, too. I think he needs fired from that job. doris - You're a good friend! mags - Have fun! I've heard that movie is amazing. mcc - Aw! Enjoy your sweet little niece! jojo - One of my best friends loves that series (she was a law student, too!). I haven't read one of them. Doglove - The temperature sounds amazing. What kind of furniture did you get? Bully - Maybe this is hard for your sister to process, which is why she came off insensitively? Not to make excuses for her, I'm just wondering if maybe she struggling with the magnitude of what this is for you. iamorange - That's nice of you to help while sick. My throat hurts today and I just want to lay in bed! Now I think I need to be somewhat productive... Aero - Um, your xh is in denial, huh? Wow.
Last night I had my very first nightmare/dream where I actually woke up to me screaming and sitting up in bed. I have no idea what I was dreaming about. I fell back asleep and had a dream about dating Justin Bieber! What the what?! How embarrassing!
Exactly! I'm in constant fear of losing my shit. Either crying or screaming at people. Neither of which is becoming.
I really do totally get it. You dont want people talking to you, asking you questions, you just want to be in your cacoon.
Yes. And I have zero patience right now. I was in target on Wednesday trying to get my prescription filled for xanax for the MRI (I'm really claustrophobic) and they couldn't get my insurance to go through. I was thisclose to either busting into tears or start screaming at them a la MCC (sorry, mint. I couldn't resist. But you know I'm teasing and I love you). I ended up just saying "Just give it to me. I'll pay cash for it" because I just needed to leave RIGHT THEN.
Bully - Maybe this is hard for your sister to process, which is why she came off insensitively? Not to make excuses for her, I'm just wondering if maybe she struggling with the magnitude of what this is for you.
Last night I had my very first nightmare/dream where I actually woke up to me screaming and sitting up in bed. I have no idea what I was dreaming about. I fell back asleep and had a dream about dating Justin Bieber! What the what?! How embarrassing!
My family has never been a "let's talk about our feelings" type of family, so I get it. MS and I talked the other day and he said the same thing: that some people won't know how to act or what to say but that doesn't mean they don't care. I still :heart: my sister for bringing me food. It was a nice gesture.
And glitzy, your random made me bust out laughing. Not the nightmare part, but the "I'm dating justin bieber" part.
Last night I had my very first nightmare/dream where I actually woke up to me screaming and sitting up in bed. I have no idea what I was dreaming about. I fell back asleep and had a dream about dating Justin Bieber! What the what?! How embarrassing!
And glitzy, your random made me bust out laughing. Not the nightmare part, but the "I'm dating justin bieber" part.
I'm glad to make you laugh! Although I swear I woke up with a reddened face from embarrassment! What are you doing while I'm asleep, brain??
I think JB is hot in the Beauty and the Beat video....thank god he's legal!
I didn't drink enough water last night (and probably a few too many beers) and woke up at 5 with the world's worst charlie horse. I thought I was going to die....but thankfully I didn't!!
I spent a few hours shopping with DD this morning and she talked the whole.damn.time. I think she said more to me this morning than she has all week long! I love days like this!! She also explained that she knows what types of things are sold at the porn store in town. lmfao, that's my girl!!
I have been separated from XH for 19 months Last night when I asked him to see someone to discuss co-parenting he started laying out guidelines for when he would take me back.
My ex occasionally likes to take a ride on the denial train, too. I can't remember if I've shared this story on here before, but it's one of my favorites. XH found out I was dating W through a mutual friend. He called me really upset and said he didn't know why we didn't work out. After I stopped hysterically laughing in my head, I told him that there were lots of reasons, even if we put aside the cheating and lying,s but at the end of the day, I would never, ever trust him to be faithful. His response? "I agree that we could probably never have a monogamous relationship, but I think that we should try for the kids. I don't understand why cheating has to be a deal breaker."
It is sad but there are women who feel that it is ok too.
It is sad but there are women who feel that it is ok too.
You'd think he'd figure out that I wasn't cool with cheating when, you know, I kicked him out of my house for cheating, lol. I'm totally fine with people being poly (couldn't do it personally, I don't share my toys well), but that wasn't even what he was proposing. Just like "I'll just keep cheating and you look the other way." Sadly, I know there are women that put up with that b.s. but that is SO not me. And he knows that. So it was COMPLETELY insane to suggest.
I wish that more people would realise what they are worth and that a happy household can be more important than having two parents living under the same roof.
My XH never cheated, he was abusive but a quote my friend sent me works for either scenario and I try to always remember it:
"If someone treats you like shit, just remember that there is someting wrong with them, not you. Normal people don't go around destroying other human beings."