Post by mamasaurus on Jan 13, 2013 20:43:55 GMT -5
I think the issue is really that some people feel so insecure that a compliment for somebody else becomes something bad, because it isn't a compliment for them.
ETA: ilovesawyer, I am guilty of constantly complimenting Miso. It's because I really do think she's lovely, smart, adventurous, and insightful while being concise. I find that in life when you encounter somebody like Miso, you can either be mean, jealous, and bitter; or you can just admit that you have a silly internet crush and get on with your life. Choosing the latter feels better AND doesn't make you come off like an annoying little shit. Try it sometime.
Post by underwaterrhymes on Jan 13, 2013 20:45:58 GMT -5
I also get compliments from both men and women. I don't think I'm extraordinary looking, but I am pretty cute. I also often go up to women I don't know and compliment them on their outfits, hair, skin, what have you. I'm not shy.
I have a friend, though, who is absolutely incredible looking. It's unreal the kind of attention she gets when she goes out. I actually think she's prettier when she wears less makeup, but it really doesn't matter if she wears it or not because she's phenomenal looking. She once had a guy she was chatting up at the airport board his flight, and THEN COME BACK OUT to get her phone number.
So...you're above average and not delusional? Unlike the rest of us?
That's why she is so kindly coming here- To inform us that she is "truly attractive" (in every part of the US) and the rest Of us are average an delusional. She is truly a philanthropist to volunteer her time so generously to educate us all!
Post by ilovesawyer on Jan 13, 2013 20:49:31 GMT -5
V,
Do you think you are self-centered? Everything I write, comes back to you talking about yourself.
Jehc,
So when you are in sweats, no makeup and your hair is a mess, everyone comes up to you to tell you are gorgeous? If this is true, do you think it's going to be that way when you get older? Also, I'm just wondering if all you women are so gorgeous, why you aren't making a livin as a model in NYC, LA, Miami, or Europe? Why aren't any of you actresses, or big tv anchors? I'm not asking this to be mean, I'm just wondering. If a girl is beautiful, the media, or modeling agents somehow find them.
Do you think you are self-centered? Everything I write, comes back to you talking about yourself.
Jehc,
So when you are in sweats, no makeup and your hair is a mess, everyone comes up to you to tell you are gorgeous? If this is true, do you think it's going to be that way when you get older? Also, I'm just wondering if all you women are so gorgeous, why you aren't making a livin as a model in NYC, LA, Miami, or Europe? Why aren't any of you actresses, or big tv anchors? I'm not asking this to be mean, I'm just wondering. If a girl is beautiful, the media, or modeling agents somehow find them.
wtf? I know many beautiful women who aren't on TV or models. Since when is whether or not they're on TV or in modeling the true test of beauty?
And since you are apparently so stunning sawyer, what do you do for a living, pray tell? And why is it so unbelievable that jehc would get approached with no makeup when you just say that you often do?
Hey, sawyer, FUCK YOU. I hate a lot of things about myself and some days I NEED THE COMPLIMENTS.
Most people think they're above average? You must be a dude, because any woman (or anyone who has spent any real time around most women) should know that women have a tendency to pick at themselves and focus on their flaws. DON'T TELL ME HOW I FEEL.