So.. earlier today you posted about your baby fever. And, now, just a few hours later, you have discussed this with your husband and he doesn't want kids.
Today! Here on the internet! You figured all this out! Wow!
As I said earlier, I started the post because I was frustrated and upset because I had once again tried to talk about having a baby, and my husband shot it down immediately. Fast forward to me venting here and being told that I needed to find out if he even wanted kids. We talked. We had a discussion. His answer was no. I don't understand why that's so weird.
Absolutely she deserves to be hurt. I just didn't like what I read to be the knee jerk responses of "omfg what a jerk deal breaker!" A deal breaker is a marriage ender. She hasn't even had an hour to process the conversation. I wanted to point out that there may be more going on than meets the eye here.
Lace, good luck tonight and I hope things look better tomorrow. Don't be too hard on yourself or your husband yet. You are at the beginning of a long, long road no matter what the outcome will be.