I just started a FB fight and I'm so mad!!

[eb777888]

Good for you!!

She sounds like a self righteous bitch.

[pantsparty]

Great work, MOFUCKO.

[kdmac]

Good for you! What a bitch.

[Deleted]

AND..... DEFRIEND. Or at the very least hide...what a twat.

[notsocreepylurker]

People and their high horses. Don't let her get under your skin and I am sorry to hear about your endo/IF.

[dfl]

wow. what a bitch. don't let her get to you. I know that's easier said than done.

[Deleted]

Because fucking tea fixes everything. Ugh. Good for you!

[demofea01]

You should've told her to MOFUCK right off. Self righteous bitch.

[muffin0]

Jan 20, 2013 19:16:50 GMT -5 @smace said:

I'm surprised she didn't say "just relax and you'll get pregnant"

Damn fertile hoes.

I want to bitch slap her on your behalf.

hahaha! My BFF is 11 weeks pregnant after 4 years of unexplained infertility. They just adopted in July. I told her she needs to save a dollar every time someone says "SEE YOU JUST NEEDED TO RELAX AND STOP WORRYING ABOUT IT!" 

[muffin0]

she sucks! glad you stood up to her!

[LaceyV]

For the record I've tried the red raspberry tea crap for the last four months. Hasn't helped. Tell her to suck it

[hopecounts]

She sucks and she handled it horribly.

that said my RE recommended RRLT for my cramps and to improve my UTE and it did help improve my response to meds and reduced/eliminated my cramps.
It's a great uterine tonic for general health so if you have bad cramping with your period it might be worth trying it for a month or 2 but their is no evidence it would fix endo.

[bab]

Jan 20, 2013 19:16:14 GMT -5 pantsparty said:

Great work, MOFUCKO.

(high5)

[missajane]

She would be put on the do not see status updates list at the LEAST (or deleted) and texts ignored.  No one needs a "friend" like that.

[cheeseandcrackers]

That is so freaking rude.. wow

[ECB]

Texting? Wtf? I think I'd be ending this friendship.

[thinkofthesoldiers]

Can you give a transcript of these messages/texts? I'd like to see her defense.

[AAM2012]

What is there to even text/talk about?

[blackcat]

Mofo, I hear ya, that passive-aggressive sort of bullshit enrages me. My MIL used to pull the same shit all the time on FB, until I defriended her. The last straw was back in July, she wrote a post that said, "I am so glad I was raised in the South, where we do not focus on petty things." (I live in the South but was raised up North). A few hours earlier, I had posted something in a Facebook "I have crappy neighbors" group about a neighbor problem, I thought the group was private, but everyone I'm friends with wound up seeing it Anyway it had nothing to do with her... but it was a PA move to try to stir up shit, when DH called her out on it, she claimed that she was talking about someone else. COME ON.

I'm glad your other friends are also calling her out on it.

[winston]

Wait, you mean I could have skipped those three surgeries and just had some tea? Well hell, I wish I'd talked to her years ago!

Except that I eat a diet specific to endo and PCOS and still had it come back enough that they removed a significant amount of tissue last week, just one year after my last lap (and I spent four months of that pregnant and four months on the pill). TEA is not going to help something like that.

I'm feeling rage on your behalf right now. I hate people who talk out of their asses when they clearly have no damn clue.

[janegold]

Jan 20, 2013 19:32:44 GMT -5 muffin0 said:

Jan 20, 2013 19:16:50 GMT -5 @smace said:

I'm surprised she didn't say "just relax and you'll get pregnant"

Damn fertile hoes.

I want to bitch slap her on your behalf.

hahaha! My BFF is 11 weeks pregnant after 4 years of unexplained infertility. They just adopted in July. I told her she needs to save a dollar every time someone says "SEE YOU JUST NEEDED TO RELAX AND STOP WORRYING ABOUT IT!" 

This exact situation just happened to a family member, and I have heard that line more times than I can count.  Who knows, there may be some truth to it, but there's no one-size-fits all remedy for everyone (and if there was, I doubt it would be f-ing raspberry leaf tea!) and to pretend there's a simple explanation is ignorant and insensitive.

[eddy]

I mean if it was as easy as drinking some fucking tea wouldn't everyone do that. DUH

[AAM2012]

This is why I never talk about infertility or any other really personal issue with friends...even good friends.

[Deleted]

She sounds insufferable. I'm glad you stood up for yourself!


Sent from my cream of crap.

[bronxgirl]

If only teas solved IF. Then I wouldn't be gearing up to give myslef my nightly battery of shots. She sounds like a peach.

[muffin0]

Jan 20, 2013 20:21:01 GMT -5 mofongo said:

Lucy - intrusive is the perfect word. I told her I don't want to discuss this with her again. I also told her I don't think she realizes how her tone comes across, etc. It wasn't taken very well, shocker!

It's so stupid when all this person had to say "you know, I'm sorry, I made a mistake, I will delete this"

But they almost ALWAYS have to take it to the next level