First Date WTF?

[cleo29]

I am not sure what I would have done in the moment either. Maybe he will write to you or call about seeing you again and then you can say something to him.

[Deleted]

People are so gross.


Sent from my cream of crap.

[Deleted]

It is enough not to date him again.

When such things occur, sometimes we are simply too shocked in the moment to respond.

[cleo29]

I had a guy tell me on a first date that he had a really small penis. I think this was while we were eating our main course.

[eb777888]

Ew. What a racist prick. And I agree with Miso.

[thebamker]

Jan 21, 2013 13:53:39 GMT -5 @stpete said:

He just texted back:

OK
Thank you


I don't get why he thanked me, but whatever. I said my piece.

haha @ the TY!

[malibu]

I know I shouldn't be, but I am kind of shocked at the crap that comes out of peoples' mouths this day in age. I would assume that the majority of people out there know that calling someone a Ch*** is pretty much universally unacceptable, but apparently not. Even crazier that he busts it out during a first date. Wow.

[mamasaurus]

WTF indeed.

[youbetcha]

If he just busted it out on a first date, I would guess he is either a) so racist that he doesn't care; or b) exceedingly clueless. Since he thanked you, I might tend toward the latter. I wouldn't have said anything in the moment either. Why potentially create a big confrontation with a person you don't know (and don't know how they might react)? Best to end it quickly as you did and then clearly and briefly explain why later, as you did.

[bleubook]

At least he did it on the first date and didn't save it for like the 5th or something. think of it that way.

[bab]

Dating seems like the biggest crock of shit ever. I would be totally lost.

Good for you for letting him know what he said was not OK