S/O "I'm trying to get fucked tonight" dancing

[thedahliharpa]

Carey's post has me wondering about this. Did/do you partake in this kind of dancing? This is something that I have never grasped. What's the appeal? I don't see anything sexy about it. Maybe it's like people who think they can sing but can't and think they look like J-lo when they shake their ass in some dude's face. I personally find guys gyrating their junk about like that really gross. Is this a UO?

[Deleted]

So, yes. But only when I was dumb, young, and drunk at a club or something. And it wasn't my go-to move, sometimes it just happened. However, I could never imagine doing that now, I would be way too embarassed.

[mikehoncho]

I was just having a conversation about this with my husband. I dunno if it's because I'm younger or what, but this was how EVERYONE danced at any school function. Seriously, it was like a giant orgy on the dance floor, we eventually had to have security guards on the dance floor breaking people up. Then people stopped going to the dances, so they got rid of the guards. Thinking back now--it creeps me the hell out and I don't know why we were like that but at the time it was just normal dancing. I mean, I remember my 8th grade honors dance being like that, so bizarre.

[Dorothy Zbornak]

I have done variations of such dances for laughs only. But I don't have the knees for things like that anymore.

Sent from my crappy club for jerks.

[careyalis]

Absolutely not! I'm all for dancing and having fun, but no one should walk away with a boner.

[mikehoncho]

Oh, and yes, now I would never. Even in college I thought it was gross but I kind of did my hard partying in high school. In college I was pretty chill and just wanted to watch movies/smoke a joint over getting dressed up in uncomfortable clothes to have some sweaty guy grind on me and I was dating D at the time so..

[Deleted]

Ummm... no. I was never cool enough for that. And I was cool with that.

[cat19]

Jan 27, 2013 11:33:45 GMT -5 careyalis said:

Absolutely not! I'm all for dancing and having fun, but no one should walk away with a boner.

This made me laugh so hard!!!

[kdrake8]

I danced like that with boyfriends but not with strangers.

[erniebufflo]

I did some PG-13 grinding in my college days. With girlfriends and with dudes. Usually at frat parties where everyone was wasted. It was college.

[carawestt]

I never got really dirty but I definitely did my fair share of grinding at high school dances.

[katie]

Yes when drunk but it's been forever and only with my husband. At Latin clubs most everyone does a grinding type dance when Regaeton music plays.

[Deleted]

What Ernie said.

[tuck]

Only in the privacy of my bedroom, when I actually was trying to get fucked.

[monkeybabe]

Nope. I cannot dance and felt ridiculous just thinking about trying to grind up on someone. I went to school dances to socialize.

[ashleydl83]

Jan 27, 2013 11:33:45 GMT -5 careyalis said:

Absolutely not! I'm all for dancing and having fun, but no one should walk away with a boner.

Lol, no kidding. I can understand teenagers because of hormones and whatnot, but come on. Grow up.

[ashleydl83]

Lol, I just remembered my 11th grade homecoming. Several of the sophomore competition cheerleaders were dancing on poles like they were stripper poles. A few teachers saw and told our coach. They got suspended from a couple of games for it.

[mrsjaymay]

Yep, in college.

And lol at carey's boner comment!

[thedahliharpa]

I died at careyalis 's boner comment and CH'd at Dorothy Zbornak 's weak knees. I was never coordinated enough to pull off PG-13 grinding and since I like tall guys the body parts wouldn't have aligned correctly.

[silverjm]

In my college/clubbing days I may have done some grinding with some of the guys I dated if enough alcohol was involved, but not with strangers. People attempted this kind of dancing back in high school, but the chaperones were pretty quick to break it up.

[thedahliharpa]

Jan 27, 2013 13:59:56 GMT -5 @pcloadletter said:

Jan 27, 2013 13:54:40 GMT -5 thedahliharpa said:

I died at careyalis 's boner comment and CH'd at Dorothy Zbornak 's weak knees. I was never coordinated enough to pull off PG-13 grinding and since I like tall guys the body parts wouldn't have aligned correctly.

Now I'm laughing imagining you grinding a guy's knees. Hawt    

Belly button in my face! 

[rjamz]

I don't think so, but my school didn't really have dances except the prom. And whoa, at prom people got naaaaaasty. Not me, though. I watched in horror as a girl seemed to have an orgasm on the dance floor

[punkyjulster]

Yes. I went to way too many clubs in my younger days. I can't even imagine doing it now. The thought of attempting it now makes me cringe.

[mumegs]

Yes I used to more than I care to admit when I was in college. We used to get wasted and go out dancing pretty much every weekend. Although most of the time if a guy started grinding on one of us we would save them, unless the guy was hot!! But yeah I would never nowadays.

[ruby412]

Jan 27, 2013 11:46:47 GMT -5 erniebufflo said:

I did some PG-13 grinding in my college days. With girlfriends and with dudes. Usually at frat parties where everyone was wasted. It was college.

Samesies. College was one big frat party after the next - sandwiched between lots of studying, of course.

[creamsiclechica]

Sometimes threads like this make me feel like an awful sexual degenerate. Yeah I did this, but when I was wasted. And I mean I generally knew the person, and it's not like I slept with everyone I grinded in a bar. Would I do it at a Catholic school function? No. In a club after a few drinks with my husband? Sure.

[helicase]

I met MH this way

House party in college.  We met on the dance floor.  Lots of booze was involved.

[Deleted]

My girlfriends and I had a rule that we would only dance with each other. We just wanted to dance and have fun and if a guy tried to push his way in we would move.

[kdrake8]

Jan 27, 2013 14:41:36 GMT -5 creamsiclechica said:

Sometimes threads like this make me feel like an awful sexual degenerate. Yeah I did this, but when I was wasted. And I mean I generally knew the person, and it's not like I slept with everyone I grinded in a bar. Would I do it at a Catholic school function? No. In a club after a few drinks with my husband? Sure.

Cream, we are grinding soul mates <3

[bebeetmoi]

Jan 27, 2013 12:05:51 GMT -5 @tambcat said:

I also always operated under the delusion that I looked really hot doing it, and now looking back, I am embarrassed. lol

Yup, this is me too, as horrified to admit it as I am. Never in high school, but I went to a lot of clubs in college and am now morritified thinking about my antics. A good portion of this dancing may or may not have taken place on table tops too