Thursday night "I feel like drinking" randoms

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You will find someone like that, just don't lose hope.

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You will find someone, for sure!!

My random is that I'm a grown ass woman and I'm eating dinosaur shaped chicken nuggets for dinner...
Rawr.

[jojoandleo]

I start drama on the regular. You just don't notice it because you looooooooooooooooooooooove me. I get, um, passionate?

I have done so much today and have so much more to do before we leave for Austin tomorrow. instead, i am sitting here eating STARBURSTS, and avoiding doing laundry/packing. I am sad to board the pups, but they would HATE driving to Austin with us. Plus, the boarding place is indoor/outdoor, they put them in playgroups for their size, are ran by a vet, and they have webcams so i can watch my pup. They will also board them together since they like to cuddle. I know they will like that better. Still, they are my BAAAAAAAAAABIES!

[stephreloaded]

MP, I guess we all feel that way from time to time.

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Jan 31, 2013 20:42:24 GMT -5 mp said:

It's amazing how one tiny little thing can turn your day around. For better or worse. Sadly, mine was turned worse. Over something entirely dumb.

Overall I'm quite happy where I'm at in life. But sometimes I feel like I'll never find someone amazing that I click with. Sure, I can find a guy that likes me. But will I like him back? And when I do, will it be a crazy situation a la SBG? Or will I actually find someone that is normal, healthy, can communicate AND we dig each other? Will I find someone that stimulates my mind and I want to do him? UGH.

This place is kinda BSC lately. From last week's drama involving me - maybe it started before that and I just didn't notice. Is it a full moon?

I can relate to you there.  Meeting new people is great, but I'm a bit discouraged at the moment with dating.  

[brewco]

I am working with another therapist at PT for my knee and she made a comment tonight that has me really worried that my surgery failed. <--I don't know which one describes how I feel best.

I only worked 2 days this week and it feels like it's been the longest week ever.

I wish I could post during the day sometimes, I feel like I could contribute to some posts but feel like it's not worth commenting at night.

[pinkplasticdoll]

You will find someone that sweeps you off of your feet, you just need to have a little bit of hope.

I think the drama here is far more tolerable than in other places so I lurk here a lot more. The drama in the other boards was projecting onto my real life and starting to have an affect on me.

[doriswe]

I think the same thing sometimes (and have talked Bully's ear off about that exact thing!).

I'm currently hating work because of the shit show that went down on Monday night. I was told not to say anything by a coworker, as directed by my supervisor, but the hell if I'm selling my soul to the devil to cover for anyone.

[naeljun]

I feel that way daily. Damn, I have been divorced for 4 yrs and have been on 2 dates. Seriously. I will never find someone. Ever.

[bullygirl979]

mp, I have no doubt that you will find someone that stimulates you and that you want to jump. Seriously, I have ZERO doubt!

My random is that my incisions are starting to itch. Damn it sucks not to scratch them.

[stephreloaded]

Jan 31, 2013 21:29:23 GMT -5 naeljun said:

I feel that way daily. Damn, I have been divorced for 4 yrs and have been on 2 dates. Seriously. I will never find someone. Ever.

I always notice when you post things like this and it always makes me upset. I think you are awesome and you just need more confidence and also because you remind me of myself a few years ago. I used to think no one wanted to date me and I would have to settle for whatever I got. Now Im older and my body is not what it used to be but Im the most confident I have been.

So please stop and just know that if someone doesnt want to date you, he is the one who is missing out.

[naeljun]

I have to write a paper that I have no desire to do. Positive is that my average is so high, I can blow off the final assignment and still get a B.

[doriswe]

Jan 31, 2013 21:35:45 GMT -5 stephreloaded said:

Jan 31, 2013 21:29:23 GMT -5 naeljun said:

I feel that way daily. Damn, I have been divorced for 4 yrs and have been on 2 dates. Seriously. I will never find someone. Ever.

I always notice when you post things like this and it always makes me upset. I think you are awesome and you just need more confidence and also because you remind me of myself a few years ago. I used to think no one wanted to date me and I would have to settle for whatever I got. Now Im older and my body is not what it used to be but Im the most confident I have been.

So please stop and just know that if someone doesnt want to date you, he is the one who is missing out.

I feel the exact same way but never know how to say it!!

[naeljun]

Jan 31, 2013 21:37:20 GMT -5 doriswe said:

Jan 31, 2013 21:35:45 GMT -5 stephreloaded said:

I always notice when you post things like this and it always makes me upset. I think you are awesome and you just need more confidence and also because you remind me of myself a few years ago. I used to think no one wanted to date me and I would have to settle for whatever I got. Now Im older and my body is not what it used to be but Im the most confident I have been.

So please stop and just know that if someone doesnt want to date you, he is the one who is missing out.

I feel the exact same way but never know how to say it!!

Thanks ladies. I am working on me right now.  A lot of introspection and therapy. I am working on my confidence. I hope to become more positive about dating but when you are constantly rejected, it really weighs heavy on your self-esteem. 
 
I think and believe that I am attractive, smart, funny, kind, and caring. I have a lot of to offer someone. I have no idea why I can't seem to find someone who I would want to date.  I apologize if it sounds like I don't get approached at all.  I do. But it isn't anyone I would ever be interested in, in a million years.  I don't have high standards, but I have some standards. I don't want to date, just to date. It isn't fair to the guy and I don't have the time to waste.   I had a goal for 2011 and that was to go on one date - I did. I set the same goal for 2012 and didn't get any. Though I did get a cute, young guy to sleep with. That actully really helped me a lot and made me realize that I do want to be with someone.


Sorry for hijacking post MP 

[cam13]

My guy BFF, who has been my strength, is deploying in May. I'm very proud of his commitment to our country and also very afraid to lose him. I've lost so many great men in my life the last 13 months and sometimes it's just too much. I miss my Dad terribly.

boo, I'm a party pooper.

[bullygirl979]

My other random and then I'm going to bed....

I set my friend up with this guy I went out with a few times but didn't have a spark with. He just texted me that he took her out and lost his wallet. He is totally mortified. And I'm all "oy." because I've never played matchmaker. I texted him back and asked if he was digging her because then he could take her out again and make it up to her. I have yet to hear back from him OR her as to how the date went. I am cursing myself for playing matchmaker.....

[jojoandleo]

OMG My hypochondriac cousin has NOW decided to post nothing but bible quotes on FB.



So we have gone from: posting about nothing but her various ailments, to posting vaguebook statuses asking for prayer, and now this. Urgh.

[1confused1]

Can I post a "I'm not thinking, I'm drinking" Thursday random?

XH and I have been separated a year.

I wish I had a friend with benefits. That's really all I want right now.

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mp and naeljun. I'm totally right there with you and have ALWAYS felt this way. Although I feel like in the last few months something changed in myself. Like I always said I was awesome and amazing, but I don't think I really believed it nor was I projecting it. Something changed and I really started to believe it. Although I don't feel like I'm doing anything differently, I'm getting approach A LOT more by decent guys.

[lookingup]

I haven't had an adult beverage since NYE; this is probably the longest I've gone without drinking in the past year. It's only because I've been sick pretty much this entire month, starting literally January 2, but damn I can't wait to get tipsy on my birthday. <)

[naeljun]

Jan 31, 2013 22:40:47 GMT -5 mp said:

Heeey don't apologize! I often feel the exact same way. The guys I am approached by are not my style, and truthfully I am looking to potentially move out of the area - or date out of the area. Iwould be ok with a long distance relationship because the caliber of men in my area is not as amazing as I'd like. I actually discussed this with my therapist this week - and she totally agreed with me. My area is strange. Go an hour away and it's totally different, but a lot of those men don't want to date girls an hour my direction. Ah well. We'll find someone. Maybe each other.

Will you make me jewelry anytime I want?