I have a friend at work that we used to go to lunch together on pay weeks (every other week). The past four times they have invited me to go to lunch the day before, the day of they have an excuse. The first time there was no reason, the second time was car troubles (really, i could have driven) the fourth time was that they went to lunch early and forgot me! This time is that they thought it was going to rain all day so they brought their lunch. Really?! I give up, I am not going to agree to go to lunch with them anymore. This post really doen't have a point, I am just rather pissed.
That is the thing, I asked them what was going on and if they had a problem, and he said that he didn't. I know there was a point where one didn't want to go because he didn't like one of the other people, but she isn't even here today, so I guess the problem is with me.
Post by OrangePixyStix on Jun 1, 2012 10:34:07 GMT -5
I'm sorry it feels like they are giving you the cold shoulder. I hope it's just a series of unexpected things that caused the lunches not to happen and that it's not that they have a problem with you. If it is the latter, then fuck them... you are awesome and would make terrific lunch company and they are missing out.
Wow! That is a shitty thing to do to someone. Grrr! I will NEVER understand why people have to be so cruel. I just do not get it!
I used to go out occasionally for lunch with a few of my co-workers but I really don't have anything in common with the people I work with. We are all just very different people. They all seem very nice but I don't trust people in the work place. I've seen so many people get burned in the 5 years I have been here.
So now I just pack my lunch and eat at my desk. I'm now sharing my lunch hour (and them some) with all you awesome girls and it's so much more enjoyable!