Does anyone else suffer from this condition?

[Deleted]

Oh I do for sure!! Every time I'm first in a relationship, or my entire last year long relationship with xBF (the abuser), I am mush and no brains and "like totally" in lurrrrrve and in a glass box of my boyfriend. I hate it. I think this time around, I actually broke the cycle because I was so unsure about J from the beginning and waited 2 and half months to have sex with him, and crap...but yeah. Totally me.

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Feb 4, 2013 20:35:57 GMT -5 liubot said:

Oh I do for sure!! Every time I'm first in a relationship, or my entire last year long relationship with xBF (the abuser), I am mush and no brains and "like totally" in lurrrrrve and in a glass box of my boyfriend. I hate it. I think this time around, I actually broke the cycle because I was so unsure about J from the beginning and waited 2 and half months to have sex with him, and crap...but yeah. Totally me.

But me waiting to have sex with him got me knocked up and fast forwarded the relationship by warp speed...so...yeah no one should listen to my advice!!

[bullygirl979]

I know I suffered from this with XBF. I got in too deep, too quick. And I ignored EVERY red flag I saw. I think moving slow with MS is helping me see things more clearly.

[jojoandleo]

Erm, have you heard me talk about my XFI? OBVIOUSLY I was suffering from PISS. He wasn't even THAT nice looking.

I dated this REALLY SUPER attractive man once (like, my friends were amazed by his beauty). TOTAL asshole. But I was all "OMG! I think I love him! he is so amazing and awesome and we are going to have these beautiful babies!" I even caught him making out with another girl while I was still there from the night before. Yet, i was convinced I was going to change him. HA!

[starburst604]

I managed to have a serious case of this in my last relationship, except I barely got any penis the whole nine months. Intercourse was "too much pressure" for him after the first few weeks. That makes it even more cringe-worthy.

[doriswe]

Oh, hell yeah....pretty sure the first month or two of hanging out with J I had a major case of it. I thought I could fuck him into liking me and then he'd clean up his act!!

[Deleted]

Yep, I've had a few men in my dating life when I suffered from this.

[brewco]

*raises hand* yup, been there, XH to be specific.

[jojoandleo]

Feb 4, 2013 21:03:36 GMT -5 doriswe said:

Oh, hell yeah....pretty sure the first month or two of hanging out with J I had a major case of it. I thought I could fuck him into liking me and then he'd clean up his act!!

BAHAHAHAHAHA!  This was me EXACTLY  With super hot guy.  If I just fucked him multiple times a day, he was BOUND to love me.  Thank god I was a "no glove, no love" girl because dude would fuck anything with tits.

[glitzyglow]

No! I'm too fucking logical after my divorce. I have watched my friends experience this condition. One of my friends almost married the asshole. Thank god her PISS fog finally lifted!

[Deleted]

Holy crap!!  This is my excuse for my entire relationship with exh.  I didn't know it had a name!!!  I'm your # 1 fan for giving me my diagnosis  

[turtle1120]

I'm pretty certain I do since I've said this phrase a countless number of times regarding my ex: "What the hell was I thinking?!" Yeah, hindsight is always 20/20, but there's no way I should have glossed over the issues I did and cut him so much slack. Andplusalso, I have no idea how I never realized how stoooopid he was.

Although, I think I may be overcompensating for my past cases of PISS now and just looking for things to be wrong. I need to find the happy medium.

[gerberdaisy]

I am a long time sufferer from this! STBX was one example since we may have slept together the night we met and I was sooo in love from then on. I have another guy that I have a chronic case of PISS with. He isn't even good looking (well I think he is, but all my friends tell me I'm wrong). We've been sleeping together off and on for like 8 years and I still get giddy when he calls/texts me. He has every red flag in the book, but I just can't get enough. Actually, he just called me tonight and I went to sleep thinking about him.

What is the cure!?!

[Deleted]

I'll fess up to that!

[hazel]

Yes, I do right now. I'm hoping it isn't a permanent problem.

Ladies, at least we're all aware of it. That's a step in the right direction!

[dirtybella]

I'm currently in recovery from PISS.....although not immune to relapse.

[redredwine]

I think we've all been there for sure...I know I have!

[spindle92]

Feb 5, 2013 9:10:13 GMT -5 hazel said:

Yes, I do right now. I'm hoping it isn't a permanent problem.

Ladies, at least we're all aware of it. That's a step in the right direction!

Yes, admitting is the first step to recovery.  LOL!

[doriswe]

Feb 5, 2013 8:20:53 GMT -5 gerberdaisy said:

What is the cure!?!

More penis???

[llh0211]

Feb 5, 2013 18:38:39 GMT -5 doriswe said:

Feb 5, 2013 8:20:53 GMT -5 gerberdaisy said:

What is the cure!?!

More penis???

Sounds logical.  You need to build up immunity.  Kind of like an immunization...

[doriswe]

Feb 5, 2013 19:02:55 GMT -5 llh0211 said:

Feb 5, 2013 18:38:39 GMT -5 doriswe said:

More penis???

Sounds logical.  You need to build up immunity.  Kind of like an immunization...

Uh huh...or eating candy that dropped on the floor!

[gerberdaisy]

Feb 5, 2013 18:38:39 GMT -5 doriswe said:

Feb 5, 2013 8:20:53 GMT -5 gerberdaisy said:

What is the cure!?!

More penis???

Lol, I have to amend this to different penis. I keep using the same one and it just makes my symptoms worse!

[doriswe]

Feb 5, 2013 20:35:38 GMT -5 gerberdaisy said:

Feb 5, 2013 18:38:39 GMT -5 doriswe said:

More penis???

Lol, I have to amend this to different penis. I keep using the same one and it just makes my symptoms worse!

Valid point!!!