I have V abs. Because I WANTED them. Because they're sexy as hell and show off the amount of time I spend at CrossFit. The men at my box think they're awesome. My H (who's straight) thinks I'm hot and even likes to touch me. I do NOT have a man's body, even though I have abs. I'm still considered feminine, even though I have abs. I'm still a woman because I have a FUCKING VAGINA, even though I have abs.
I also have a Kim K ass like whoa because I do a gazillion squats a week, but who cares about that, amiright?
Thank you. The straight man comment was bugging the shit out of me. Every STRAIGHT man I have ever been with has loved my muscular abs...and my ass, because I have both...and I'm a woman. Shocking, I know.
I was not involved in any of this thread, however in reading it, this is the exact thing that I was thinking. My body is not like Pink's, but I do work out regularly, I have V abs, and I am muscular. I know how hard I have to work just to keep up what I've got, I can't imagine the amount of work put into a body like that. For that reason, I am in awe of her.
And for what its worth, my hubby loves my body and tells me it often.