Post by erniebufflo on Feb 27, 2013 17:33:53 GMT -5
As the parent of a disabled kid, I have mixed feelings. Obviously, it's great to treat a disabled kid like a human being and let him play. But this whole thing is very patronizing and paternalistic. I don't want inclusion for my daughter to be a pat on the head or a big fat cookie. I want her to just be able to enjoy activities she likes without people being all, "Awww, how great that she even TRIED," or act like people who participate in those activities with her are somehow heroes for sacrificing victory to treat someone like a full person.
As the parent of a disabled kid, I have mixed feelings. Obviously, it's great to treat a disabled kid like a human being and let him play. But this whole thing is very patronizing and paternalistic. I don't want inclusion for my daughter to be a pat on the head or a big fat cookie. I want her to just be able to enjoy activities she likes without people being all, "Awww, how great that she even TRIED," or act like people who participate in those activities with her are somehow heroes for sacrificing victory to treat someone like a full person.
I can see what you mean, but on the flip side, it can also be viewed as sometimes people need a leg up, an encouragement along the way. Another video shows the young man trying several times to get a basket and failing and you can just see him getting discouraged. It's true the boy from the other team didn't really sacrifice anything (his team had already lost), but the fact that he made the choice to help someone else achieve his dream I think is admirable.