I feel like a bad wife. Want to join my pity party

[laurack]

ummm. you do not suck. Jeez lady cut yourself some slack! who wants a sexing with all that shiz going on?

[mala]

You don't suck. I think it was presumptuous of him to assume you would want to get it on.

[dixeedeluxe]

Feb 28, 2013 9:14:46 GMT -5 mala said:

You don't suck. I think it was presumptuous of him to assume you would want to get it on.

Yeah, your feeling of NOT wanting to do it is just as valid and important as his boner.

[claralou]

Feb 28, 2013 9:13:10 GMT -5 laurack said:

ummm. you do not suck. Jeez lady cut yourself some slack! who wants a sexing with all that shiz going on?

yeah, this. Take some time for yourself.

[mala]

Feb 28, 2013 9:23:23 GMT -5 @therealmc said:

Feb 28, 2013 9:21:35 GMT -5 dixeedeluxe said:

Yeah, your feeling of NOT wanting to do it is just as valid and important as his boner.

I tell myself this but then I start to feel guilty when friends tell me how much sex they are having.  Then I feel inadequate somehow.  It's silly, I know, but I can't seem to help it.

You have so much on your plate right now that you really can't compare your life to that of anyone else's.

[Regina Philange]

You are a terrific wife! I would feel no guilt and neither should you!

[kdrake8]

Feb 28, 2013 9:14:46 GMT -5 mala said:

You don't suck. I think it was presumptuous of him to assume you would want to get it on.

All of this!

[dixeedeluxe]

Feb 28, 2013 9:23:23 GMT -5 @therealmc said:

Feb 28, 2013 9:21:35 GMT -5 dixeedeluxe said:

Yeah, your feeling of NOT wanting to do it is just as valid and important as his boner.

I tell myself this but then I start to feel guilty when friends tell me how much sex they are having.  Then I feel inadequate somehow.  It's silly, I know, but I can't seem to help it.

I usually offer a handy, but DH usually declines.  I mean, sex is supposed to be something that's mutually enjoyed.  If I'm not going to enjoy it, then I'm not going to do it.  Sex shouldn't be a chore. 

Where's that poll from the other day.  Most of us April moms are not having oodles of sex! 

[lolaburns]

A hemi and constipation...you should not feel guilty at all. Take today for yourself! With all you have going on, you need it and I know your H will understand that.


Sent from the bottom of a Clorox bottle.

[creamsiclechica]

I definitely agree that you have SO much going on that it's unfair to yourself to compare your sex frequency to others, darling. I don't even have 1/4 of what you've got and we're barely having any sex. You need some time to decompress, and maybe after you've had that, you'd come around on your own. Give a woman some time, constipation + hemis is a recipe for no sex for a long time, lol.

I hope you get some time to relax, honey, you need it.

[Deleted]

No, don't feel bad. There is nothing worse than having in your head some quiet time, and then someone comes along and tries to ruin it. There is way too much going on in your world to think about sex. Go get some rest, and enjoy alone time.

[musiclover]

I completely understand how you feel.  I work full time as well, and have two kiddos.  At the end of the day, I just want to SLEEP!!! Sex is not something that happens in my home these days, just too damn busy and tired for that.

hugs

[Deleted]

My husband went without for almost a year....your hubs can handle a few days.