Post by browneyedhunni85 on Mar 13, 2013 19:52:23 GMT -5
DH just recently started a new job. They let him go today. It just wasn't working out. I feel so bad for him and I can't stop crying. It's not even that he lost his job it's just he's had such a hard time finding something. He had a good job and was out for knee surgery. They are just so slow that there is no work for him to come back right now. He does have a seasonal job that started back up this week so he will not be jobless. So glad his manager is understanding. DH said he just feels ashamed and that it's not right that I'm the one working full time when I would love to be at home with Christian. I'm just thankful that I do have a job to support us. I reminded him that it could be so much worse. I just wish he wouldn't have seen me cry because I know it makes him feel that much worse. I do believe that things happen for a reason. Last week he was filling out his paperwork and watching safety videos. He got a chance to talk to the other guys and they all said he would hate the job. There was no accountability, everyone was either family or a friend of a friend kind of thing. Maybe it's for the best but it still breaks my heart for DH. Sorry for the rambling I just really need to get this out.
Emerson Kate, born 38w5d on 4/6/12 at 6:02 p.m., 5 lbs 13 oz and 18 3/4 inches. Lucas Matthew, born 39w5d on 4/11/14 at 8:20 a.m., 7 lbs 4 oz and 20 inches.
I will be praying that this was a window opening after a door closing. Could be a blessing in disguise. I get much more upset when someone hurts my husband or my babies than if they hurt me. That just means you are a good wife/mom.
Post by creamsiclechica on Mar 13, 2013 21:24:51 GMT -5
Oh BEH, I'm so sorry! I know how much you were looking forward to this working out. I hope something better comes along and it all works out. It's okay to be upset and we're here for you!
Post by TrudyCampbell on Mar 14, 2013 6:49:18 GMT -5
I'm sorry . If it wasn't the right fit for him he probably wasn't enjoying it very much anyway. I'm sure he will find something much better! I lost a job once because I wasn't meshing well with the doctor and I was DEVASTATED and a few weeks later I found my dream job and was so happy. It will work out!