Post by DotAndBuzz on Mar 28, 2013 20:17:23 GMT -5
I have to get this out here so I don't completely rage at H when he gets home from his run.
It isn't even worth it for me to go to the gym in the evenings because I come home to a complete shit storm whenever I do. I KNOW the girls watched a movie, so I KNOW they were occupied and he could have cleaned up the place. But he didn't. Because I also KNOW he sat on his ass and effed around on the computer, as his laptop is now at the kitchen table instead of put away where it had been all day.
So H, when I'm not super eager to help you "earn another sticker" for your Work It Out Challenge chart, here's why: I came home on cloud nine from a fanfuckingtastic work out to hear a screaming kid writhing in the hall way, dishes on the table, dishwasher clean but full, random easter candy spread out all over the living room floor (WTF?), and neither kid asleep. I then have to put them both to bed by myself (because you are at the gym doing your run for the marathon I don't want you running), eat dinner, clean up everyone elses' dinner, and then clean up the damn house. And THEN take a shower. No, you did not clean up the entire kitchen (as you implied) by washing a pot in which you boiled noodles. Natalie ratted you out about the movie, so I know you did shit while I was gone simply because you didn't want to. So instead of getting some action, I'm spending my evening doing other things which take me out of the mood completely.
Yes this is petty and stupid, and no I'm not going to sit down and talk it out with him. This is not a surprise, and he'll know right away why I'm pist when he sees me cleaning up. Sure, I could let it go and not clean it up, but then I'm still stuck dealing with it tomorrow when he's at work, and with 2 kids at home. Eff that.
@nuggetbrain, I promise I'll keep our cell nice and tidy, ok?
Fuuuuuuck. Fuck them and their 'I don't get to see her enough, I do what I want' parenting. Oh wait, that's about me. :/
Seriously though, I walked out a few months ago. I came home and was like really? This is the situation? No, and I walked back out. There was no sitting down and talking. I told him that if he wanted to make my life harder, then tit for tat, you put her to bed. He's much smarter now.