I'm starting to get anxious about our Savannah trip

[formerlyllizzyb]

We left Graham for 48 hours this weekend. We've left him overnight a couple of times, but it was never to go out of town and it was only for one night. This time, we were a 3.5 hour drive away for a wedding DH was in.

It was really hard, I won't lie, and DS came down with a fever and congestion while we were gone But there was a small part of me that was relieved to not be the one getting up with a sick kid all night long! Also, I really don't think little ones have a great sense of time Meaning, they don't realize how long you've been gone.

I totally understand how you feel. I think it's normal.

[Regina Philange]

It will be OK! I left Lou overnight on Saturday. We went to AC for my H's 30th. At first I was like "I miss Loulou!" Then I got a few drinks in me, and all was good.

Enjoy yourself!

[charlielove]

Fortunately babies don't understand time the way we do! She won't have any idea that you are gone longer than a normal work day really. Honestly, the actual leaving is the hardest part for me. Once we are at our destination, it's pretty easy to relax and enjoy it. I always get anxious beforehand too.

[formerlyllizzyb]

Apr 9, 2013 12:07:30 GMT -5 @tambcat said:

Apr 9, 2013 12:05:48 GMT -5 formerlyllizzyb said:

Also, I really don't think little ones have a great sense of time Meaning, they don't realize how long you've been gone.

This is what I was hoping - that they are kind of like dogs in this regard. lol. We did leave her overnight back in October, but she was a lot younger then. It didn't feel the same.

I also just know she'll take her first step while we're OOT.

Lol, yeah...didn't want to make the dog comparison, but I think it's similar!

No, Joanna! Wait on that walking for your mama!

[Faevantastic]

Awww, she'll hear your voice over the phone when you call to check up!

[Deleted]

I understand. We were thinking about taking a vacation this year for our 5 year anniversary, just H and myself, but once I really think about it, I don't know if I want to leave her. It's hard.

[thedahliharpa]

J will do great! No walking allowed. Tell your mom to take lots of long stroller walks and to feed her in the high chair nice and sloooow.

What will you being doing while away?

[chasbride07]

I'm pretty sure babies' have the time reference of "now" and "not now" I left for work in October and she was great. We are planning on staying in downtown Charleston next week for the night as well.

Joanna will do great!

[thedahliharpa]

Apr 9, 2013 12:24:48 GMT -5 @tambcat said:

Apr 9, 2013 12:19:35 GMT -5 thedahliharpa said:

J will do great! No walking allowed. Tell your mom to take lots of long stroller walks and to feed her in the high chair nice and sloooow.

What will you being doing while away?

We don't have any specific plans - just walking around, popping into shops, eating and drinking and being child-free for the weekend. Except H is already talking about wanting to get up early on Saturday since we won't have a lot of time, blah blah. GD it H, I just want to RELAX! He always stresses me out on vacations.

That sounds SO nice. I think we are finally getting a date afternoon the Saturday after next and I can't wait. Other than a wedding and my Christmas party we have not had a "date" since September. Also, I've been known to over plan vacations and I think it just stems from wanting to make sure everything is awesome but I know it makes my husband nuts. :-)

[spaghetticat]

It will be ok. I agree with the dog time thing. Have a great time!

[laurack]

Oh I know I would be the exact same! In theory wanting to go away then at the last minute being sad about leaving her! I feel like this about date nights too but then once I am having a drink I'm like WHATEVER she'll be FINE!

So I bet all will be well once the goodbye part is over. And then when you see her again it will be extra special and she'll be so happy to see you!

[TrudyCampbell]

Aw, she will be okay! Atleast she is used to seeing your mom every day! I'm having a panic attack about leaving V with my inlaws because she barely knows them. Go and enjoy yourselves! And try not to have your period

[skiesthelimit]

Awe I'm sorry. I feel the same way. I'm leaving on a girl's weekend trip for 2 nights at the end of the month and I'm having the same thoughts. DH picks X up from DC and I get home maybe 30minutes later. The entire time X says "mama" and signs for BFing. It makes me so sad that I won't be home that night and he'll just keep asking for me and signing milk.

Sorry I'm no help, just wanted you to know that you're not alone. Hugs to you. I'm sure she'll be fine and try to enjoy yourself!