SIL drama update.

[mamasaurus]

Backstory: H and his sister are fighting. They've both been rude, either of them could make the first effort to reconcile, neither of them wants to, blah blah blah, and she's pissing me off by not talking to ME as well, even though we used to hang out, get lunch every week, shop together, etc. Her H was ignoring Babysaurus waving and "talking" to him at a family function we all attended, so he's acting like a jerk, too. She even ignored my email asking if her son was feeling better after he had to go to the hospital. I was on the fence about inviting her to Babysaurus' birthday party.

Well, we invited her. The invitations clearly say to please call to RSVP, but she emailed H and I instead saying she "didn't feel comfortable" coming with "the current situation" and she didn't want to "make it about her." I asked MIL if our nephew will be coming with her and FIL, and she hasn't answered them if they can take him. So, in other words, she doesn't want to make it about her, but she's not doing anything to make it easier for us either.

If she's going to act like this, I'm glad she and her H aren't coming, but JFC. Grow up already.

[sunshineluv]

That sucks, I hate drama.

[teamhayes]

Uggg that sucks. Unfortunatly a lot of us can relate. Grownups are just big babies sometimes.

[Faevantastic]

WTF is wrong with her. Seriously, grow up!

[spaghetticat]

That's annoying. I can't believe she is putting her niece in the middle of it. Is it just going to go on forever then?

[monkeybabe]

I'd like to nut punch her H. I'd say she needs to act like a grownup, but these forums have shown me that adults act about the same as 5th graders. I'm sorry they're being idiots.

[TrudyCampbell]

She's acting like an idiot child. It's so pathetic that they are depriving you of your nephew, too. I'm sorry.

I'm having a SIL moment today, too. My SIL sucks balls and she's pregnant right now and never stops talking about how AMAZING she feels and how she feels more energized than when she wasn't pregnant. She also often mentions how they got pregnant on the first try and how "pregnancy is so much easier than people make it seem!" Bitch.

[Deleted]

I'm sorry, mama! What a bitch!

[katfco]

She must think very highly of herself if she thinks her mere presence will "make it all about her."

[mamasaurus]

Apr 9, 2013 19:43:23 GMT -5 TrudyCampbell said:

She's acting like an idiot child. It's so pathetic that they are depriving you of your nephew, too. I'm sorry.

I'm having a SIL moment today, too. My SIL sucks balls and she's pregnant right now and never stops talking about how AMAZING she feels and how she feels more energized than when she wasn't pregnant. She also often mentions how they got pregnant on the first try and how "pregnancy is so much easier than people make it seem!" Bitch.

Ok, I haven't even met her, and I want to smash her ladyballs. WTF? My back joints started literally coming apart while I was pregnant, and some days I could barely walk. I also had to go on a low-sugar diet and take nasty pills and pellets to kill my recurring yeast infections--and I had to pass two Dunkin' Donuts every day but never get donuts while ravenously pregnant. This is still a small collection of problems compared to what some women handle.

Fuck her! I hope if she orders an epidural, it doesn't take.

[thedahliharpa]

That sucks. You are basically, by inviting her to the party, giving everyone a way out of their mess. Instead she is sucking everyone else right in. I'm sorry there is drama surrounding such a happy time we had our fair share this year too.

[thedahliharpa]

Apr 9, 2013 19:43:23 GMT -5 TrudyCampbell said:

She's acting like an idiot child. It's so pathetic that they are depriving you of your nephew, too. I'm sorry.

I'm having a SIL moment today, too. My SIL sucks balls and she's pregnant right now and never stops talking about how AMAZING she feels and how she feels more energized than when she wasn't pregnant. She also often mentions how they got pregnant on the first try and how "pregnancy is so much easier than people make it seem!" Bitch.

She is just asking for hemis with that talk.

[TrudyCampbell]

Apr 9, 2013 21:10:27 GMT -5 mamasaurus said:

Ok, I haven't even met her, and I want to smash her ladyballs. WTF? My back joints started literally coming apart while I was pregnant, and some days I could barely walk. I also had to go on a low-sugar diet and take nasty pills and pellets to kill my recurring yeast infections--and I had to pass two Dunkin' Donuts every day but never get donuts while ravenously pregnant. This is still a small collection of problems compared to what some women handle.

Fuck her! I hope if she orders an epidural, it doesn't take.

OMG this would make my life complete. She's def ordering one. 
I can see it now...

SIL: "OMG I felt EVERYTHING and it SUCKED!"
Trudy: "Hmm...really? I chose to have an unmedicated birth and I didn't think it was bad at all! I must be so much more hardcore than you."