I'm irrationally annoyed

[tdk2]

that dh isn't cancelling any non-essential work activities tonight and actually added a meeting to his agenda tonight after knowing I've been sick as hell all day long.

I don't understand how he doesn't get it when I tell him that I have not stopped puking all day.  Kiddo has been patting my back and my arm while I puke in the bathroom and has the cutest little sad/sympathetic face while she does it. She's a sweetie.

He's heard a few of the puke sessions today.  I still did stuff w/ kiddo.  She didn't take a nap today and instead I changed a really really bad diaper and puked some more.

He took her on one errand for about a 1/2 hour, which was nice, but it's 6pm and I'm sick as hell.  he just called and asked if we wanted to join him for a meeting at a restaurant and have dinner there.  Yes, I would love to, but not on a day I've puked non-stop.


I'm sure a lot of it is because I can't remember the last time he's thrown up, so he prob can't remember how miserable it is.  I know we have things that need to get done, but OMG.  I'm having a horrific day and haven't been able to keep anything down. 

I'm also mad at  myself that I always underplay everything when i"m at the doctor's offfice. I don't wnat to come across as wimpy.   Instead, i whine on here.  I want to call them and leave a message that I need to change my answers to the questions the midwife asked on monday.


I'm so sorry I whine about this on here sometimes.   None of my normal remedies, nor the plethora of suggestions you all have had have worked.  And while I got a replacement Rx, I didn't get it filled because i was feeling a little sassy I had 2 puke free days.   I want to be pampered, spoiled, and go to bed. Or eat. I'm hungry.  I'm just scared to eat. 

[kristie]

Go get your freaking prescription filled. You are suffering for no good reason. Then kill your DH.

[Deleted]

Is there a reason you haven't called him back to say "no we can't join you because I'm still sick and puking. In fact I need to you to come home, get my prescription filled and then take care of your daughter while I alternate between being passed out on the bathroom floor and puking in the toilet."


Or have your daughter make the "daddy, please come home and help me take care of mommy" call. Use the kid for good!

[tdk2]

Apr 11, 2013 17:01:42 GMT -5 kristie said:

Go get your freaking prescription filled. You are suffering for no good reason. Then kill your DH.

I just sent him w/ the Rx to drop off on his way to dinner meeting and then he'll picked up filled one after.  He stopped by to drop munchkin off with me. 

Does it make you really sleepy?  I thought I've read that on here and I've been worried about taking it b/c I can already barely stay awake through the day.   I'm taking it tonight.  i seriously can't stop. 

He did bring back ramen noodles.  I don't know if those will work, but they're my junky hangover/stomach illness food when I can't eat anything else.

[tdk2]

Apr 11, 2013 17:07:03 GMT -5 @randomcdn said:

Is there a reason you haven't called him back to say "no we can't join you because I'm still sick and puking. In fact I need to you to come home, get my prescription filled and then take care of your daughter while I alternate between being passed out on the bathroom floor and puking in the toilet."


Or have your daughter make the "daddy, please come home and help me take care of mommy" call. Use the kid for good!

I told him I can't join b/c I'm puking.  He had daughter for a 1/2 hour while I puked. 

He couldn't take her earlier today b/c he was working on diesel engines and filthy house renovation where she can't be.  We do have a deadline on both, and he is working his ass off, but some minor emergencies set things back a bit.    So, that's the irrational part.  We need these things done.

ps.  he now left stinky diesel smelling shoes here.  I made him leave them outside.  They probably dont' smell as bad to anyone as they do to me at this moment.

I realized I didn't send him w/ the RX about 5 min after he left w/ kiddo.

[Deleted]

But he doesn't have to go out for dinner?

He can say "sorry, I didn't realize how ill my wife is and I need to go home to take care of my child" Can't he?

I mean, ok, he had to work. But this part can be cancelled for a very good reason like this!

[kristie]

Is it zofran or phenergan? Zofran does not make you sleepy.

[tdk2]

It's our business. he needs to be there. (why I'm being irrational). Deposits are essential this time of year, as is the sales proposal they're working upon. I'm hoping he decides not to continue work on the rental house tonight. I'm guessing he won't now that he's grasping this a bit more.

She'd be mostly well behaved at the restaurant, but would need attention. The couple he's meeting w/ is signing a contract and then possibly working on a proposal for addl ideas that would help us out in business. They're bringing a 5 yr old. It would work if there were 2 of us there, but not so well w/ one of us w/ kiddo.

I'd feel the same way if it were my meeting. I thought about sending her w/ him, but I know it's so hard to get business done if your attention is on a little kiddo too. It would have been informal enough that it would have worked w/ me there, but not alone.

(again, irrational irritation.) And I do want him to get the deposit check from the meeting, so he needs to go.

I just want to have someone here. Closest (location-wise) friend who could come over is currently sick w/ a really bad cold and also pg and has a toddler the same age, so really... not something I could even ask. I wish I had family nearby sometimes.

Kiddo is playing w/ my iphone right now. I'm totally cool with that tonight. She's on all her apps and exploring new ones I downloaded for her.

[tdk2]

Apr 11, 2013 17:23:03 GMT -5 kristie said:

Is it zofran or phenergan? Zofran does not make you sleepy.

Cool.  Zofran.

I've had phenergan in australia when I had severe allergic reaction and infection/hospital trip for crazy bug bites.  I lost 3 days that I don't remember. It was prob Phenergan I've heard mentioned as sleepy on here then.  I know ppl have mentioned here for m/s, which surprised me b/c I had only had it in conjunction w/ allergy treatments. antihistamine, I presume, but I was ridiculously out of it when i had to take it.  Actually, I was passing out before on it, so maybe it wasn't the phenergan that made me lose 3 days of memory/awakeness, lol.