Effing rough.

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Sending lots of hugs. You are an awesome person mp, eff those guys.

[Muddled]

Bend over for your ass kicking.

Atta girl.
Now come in for a big hug.


Nothing is wrong with you, except for your picker.

Tell me. What's coming up in the next couple of months that you are looking forward to?

[Deleted]

Hair pets and hugs for sure!!!!!

Here's the thing. If it wasn't for the bad ones throughout my life, I don't think I would appreciate BF for everything he is (AND isn't).the less than stellar relationships help us grow and develop as people as well. That doesn't mean it won't suck or that you won't feel sad. It's part of the process. Until you meet the right one, Stinky and Co. will love and need you unconditionally.

Now, more hugs and hair pets....

[jojoandleo]

Apr 25, 2013 19:01:58 GMT -5 Muddled said:

Bend over for your ass kicking.

Atta girl.
Now come in for a big hug.


Nothing is wrong with you, except for your picker.

Tell me. What's coming up in the next couple of months that you are looking forward to?

I love when you come in here, lately.

MP- you are awesome. YOU can't MAKE someone treat you poorly, they CHOOSE to act how they act. Your ex is an adult- only HE is responsible for his actions.

[dreamcrisp1]

Hugs, hair pets, and all that you need.

There's a quote that my therapist told me that I loved,

"Forgive yourself for not having the foresight to know what now seems so obvious in hindsight."

It's normal to feel this way but you have to know that you're a good person and you deserve so much better than what he gave you.

[bowies]

It's not a right/wrong thing though. People come into our lives and provide something to us - insight into our personalities, a lesson, a soft place to land. Not everyone we meet will stick around forever and not everyone will be good to us or for us. Instead of concentrating on them, concentrate on the ones who are not only capable of loving you, but do so with gusto. There are many more of those kinds of people. And if you must think about the bad apples, think about what they've taught you. Write them a thank you note. There's a lot of healing in doing that.

Consider this an ass kicking wrapped in a hug.

[jojoandleo]

Apr 25, 2013 19:12:03 GMT -5 bowies said:

It's not a right/wrong thing though. People come into our lives and provide something to us - insight into our personalities, a lesson, a soft place to land. Not everyone we meet will stick around forever and not everyone will be good to us or for us. Instead of concentrating on them, concentrate on the ones who are not only capable of loving you, but do so with gusto. There are many more of those kinds of people. And if you must think about the bad apples, think about what they've taught you. Write them a thank you note. There's a lot of healing in doing that.

Consider this an ass kicking wrapped in a hug.

I think I am in love with you.

This is such a great way of looking at it.

[Muddled]

Bowies is right. We learn something from everyone that passes through our lives, for better or worse.



jojoandleo- Only lately?

[jojoandleo]

Apr 25, 2013 19:30:49 GMT -5 Muddled said:

Bowies is right. We learn something from everyone that passes through our lives, for better or worse.



jojoandleo- Only lately?

Yeah, you used to be a huge bitch.  We had a survey about it and everything.  Only mags topped you.

Just kidding.  I just mean I like you coming AROUND more lately.  I've always loved you.

[Deleted]

Hugs and hair pats 

[Muddled]

Apr 25, 2013 19:42:14 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

Apr 25, 2013 19:30:49 GMT -5 Muddled said:

Bowies is right. We learn something from everyone that passes through our lives, for better or worse.



jojoandleo- Only lately?

Yeah, you used to be a huge bitch.  We had a survey about it and everything.  Only mags topped you.

Just kidding.  I just mean I like you coming AROUND more lately.  I've always loved you.

I thought you liked the bitches!


mp- You never answered my question.

[bowies]

Apr 25, 2013 19:30:49 GMT -5 Muddled said:

Bowies is right. We learn something from everyone that passes through our lives, for better or worse.

Now THIS is a quote I want to put on my bulletin board!  

I teach Muddled that my football team is far superior to hers. 

[jojoandleo]

Apr 25, 2013 19:47:34 GMT -5 Muddled said:

Apr 25, 2013 19:42:14 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

Yeah, you used to be a huge bitch.  We had a survey about it and everything.  Only mags topped you.

Just kidding.  I just mean I like you coming AROUND more lately.  I've always loved you.

I thought you liked the bitches!


mp- You never answered my question.

Oh, I like the "bitches" who really just get called that for being honest.  Hence my immense Mags love-and you-and Gozf-and so on and so on.

[Muddled]

Apr 25, 2013 19:57:43 GMT -5 bowies said:

Apr 25, 2013 19:30:49 GMT -5 Muddled said:

Bowies is right. We learn something from everyone that passes through our lives, for better or worse.

Now THIS is a quote I want to put on my bulletin board!  

I teach Muddled that my football team is far superior to hers. 

Ha! NEVER! You are not right about everything.
We will beat you again this year. I am calling it now. Schooled.


mp- So many possibilities for you. The world is your oyster!

[idahome]

Sorry you had such a rough day. Now that this task is marked off your "to do" list you can focus your energy on finding that job and moving to a new place. Bigger, better, and more fulfilling things are on the horizon for you, mp.

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Apr 25, 2013 19:42:14 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

Apr 25, 2013 19:30:49 GMT -5 Muddled said:

Bowies is right. We learn something from everyone that passes through our lives, for better or worse.



jojoandleo- Only lately?

Yeah, you used to be a huge bitch.  We had a survey about it and everything.  Only mags topped you.

Just kidding.  I just mean I like you coming AROUND more lately.  I've always loved you.

I'm so honored and proud...ill share the title with muddled anyday@ brooklyn bitches!

[jojoandleo]

Apr 25, 2013 20:29:23 GMT -5 mags said:

Apr 25, 2013 19:42:14 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

Yeah, you used to be a huge bitch.  We had a survey about it and everything.  Only mags topped you.

Just kidding.  I just mean I like you coming AROUND more lately.  I've always loved you.

I'm so honored and proud...ill share the title with muddled anyday@ brooklyn bitches!

I still love everything you said to get called a bitch and make a newby GBCGBCN.  It will never not be funny to me.

I mean, you are a bitch for going to Paradise without me, though...

[doriswe]

I'm totally tardy to the party, but all of the words of wisdom you've gotten are dead on!!

And I love you....like a lot! And I'm glad that we're both on this journey together!!

[leahmel]

I know the feeling. I promise it's just a matter of picking the wrong ones. The awesome part is that is something you'll change through therapy. You'll still be your awesome self, just making better choices! Those guys are the ones who won't be easily fixed.

[winecat]

aww... lots of hugs, hair pats and GF cupcakes.

[redredwine]

Hugs mp...and what everyone said.

[mcc]

I'm tardy to the party on this but big hugs to you. I agree with what everyone else said. Remember how we said that we loved people not because we were in love with them but because of the part of our lives they became and what we learned and appreciated from them? I think that jives with the you learned something from everyone thing that bowies said. It doesn't stop the hurt, but maybe can put things into perspective. (hugs)

[udscoobychick]

Hope that today is better!

[martygras]

Hugs to you MP, at least you can move on now?