Ugh. BFP but not good.

[melindafelinda]

I've been having some bad left side pain and weird bleeding. Since I just had the ectopic removed (along with my right tube) in March I decided to take a test this morning to calm my nerves that I was NOT pregnant. It was positive. Doctor now suspects either another ectopic in the other side or another early miscarriage. But it's incredibly early so they can't really do much but test my blood and wait. They said its possible that it could be normal, but unlikely with the amount of blood (period-like flow.)

So I know I haven't been part of this board long but I just can't ask for support from my home board right now with all the "normal" pregnancies going on.

I'm just really hating my body and feeling like shit.

[Deleted]

That completely and totally sucks. There's no way around it. I'm sorry that you're going through this!!

<<HUGS>>

[azurely]

Oh melindafelinda, I'm so sorry.

You have been through so much crap lately. I hope it's not another ectopic, because while a natural m/c is awful too, at least you will have a chance of avoiding surgery. Hugs to you.

[G22]

Melinda I'm so sorry. You been put through the ringer lately. I wish I could reach through the internet and give you a real hug!

[melindafelinda]

Apr 30, 2013 20:09:15 GMT -5 azurely said:

Oh melindafelinda, I'm so sorry.

You have been through so much crap lately. I hope it's not another ectopic, because while a natural m/c is awful too, at least you will have a chance of avoiding surgery. Hugs to you.

Totally. It's sad that is what I'm hoping for at this point. I just don't want to lose the other tube.

[jewel]

I'm sorry Melinda, that's awful

Do you have an ultrasound appointment? My RE (and even my OBGYN) will have someone with a history of ectopics come in immediately to confirm. Whatever happens, I hope it goes as smoothly as it can. You deserve to catch a break somewhere.

[bananapancakes]

Oh Melinda, I am so sorry you are going through this. It seems crazy to type this out but I really hope it is just a normal miscarriage (as opposed to another ectopic of course). Hopefully you'll be able to see your doctor soon. Big hugs to you. I hope you get some good news soon.

[anonymess]

Hoping that it's not another ectopic for you!

[melindafelinda]

Apr 30, 2013 20:21:44 GMT -5 jewel said:

I'm sorry Melinda, that's awful

Do you have an ultrasound appointment? My RE (and even my OBGYN) will have someone with a history of ectopics come in immediately to confirm. Whatever happens, I hope it goes as smoothly as it can. You deserve to catch a break somewhere.

My regular obgyn is on vacation and the doc I saw would not do an ultrasound this early. So hopefully they will do one next week when I'm a little further along or my doc is back.

[degal99]

Oh, no, ::hugs::

Good luck. I hope they can get you in as soon as possible.

[KaraOrNot]

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. This is so not fair. I am so sorry.

[BNL2]

Hugs Melinda. I'm so sorry.

[belovedbride07]

I'm sorry, Melinda.

[bronxgirl]

I'm so sorry, Melinda. I'm sending you thoughts and prayers.

[awick14]

I normally only lurk here but I have to post here.

I am so sorry Melinda I have followed your posts for a while now and I really hope this works out for you. Another fx for it to be a natural mc.

((Hugs))

[changedname]

Hugs melindafelinda. I hope it is nothing. Can you go to ER and get an ultrasound there?

[kershnic]

I'm so sorry. I'm not sure how far along you might be, but when my RE suspected an ectopic (for me it turned out to be a regular miscarriage instead) she sent me to an MFM for a high powered ultrasound. Maybe you could ask about that? I hope it turns out to be normal.

[Deleted]

I lurked before I started posting & I've read some of your previous posts - Melinda, I'm thinking good thoughts for you. I really hope everything is ok.

[HoneySpider]

I'm so sorry - hope everything is ok. Will be thinking of you!

[dana2006]

I'm so sorry. (hug) (hug2)

[chickadee77]

Lurker here. I'm sorry, Melinda. Hugs to you, and fx for a good outcome.

[discogranny]

I am so sorry to hear this Melinda! I hope you are just having a natural miscarriage this time, not another ectopic. Hugs.

[trace]

Oh, Melinda. I'm so so sorry. It's just not fair . I hope it's natural and complication-free. Big hugs.

[awkwardpenguin]

I'm so sorry Melinda. I hope you have answers soon.

[lola]

Oh no melindafelinda! I am so sorry to hear this. You'll be in my thoughts. (hugs)