Post by coribelle26 on May 2, 2013 14:06:24 GMT -5
Isn't there lube on the condom if you buy that kind? (I should know this, it's only been like a year since we last used them.) I feel like we rarely used extra lube because it was already on there.
The "less mess" people are making me scratch my head. Isn't sex supposed to be messy? I think a lot of the fun of it is the fact that it's not dignified or tidy.
This is ML. We use like three towels to dry off after each of our four showers a day.
Good point. And I'm one of those degenerates who doesn't even own a sex towel.
Post by CheshireGrin on May 2, 2013 14:22:27 GMT -5
This whole conversation just makes me extra glad that BF is snipped. I have always thought of condoms as a necessary evil; it is so much better without!
We've exclusively used condoms since Emily was born. The upside for me is the minimal clean-up; the downside is having to stop in the heat of the moment. I know H can tell a difference but I can't really.
I don't mind them either and the woman who commented about them not fitting right makes me wonder if her man is overly ambitious and buying magnums or something.
Lol.. I once read that condom companies make magnums to be able to fit the majority of the male population. They're only something like, 1/3 of an inch longer. Vanity sizing, male edition.
Am I making this up, or was there some talk at one point about a liquid condom that you kind of pour/rub(?) onto the penis and it forms a shield? Maybe I dreamed it in one of my wild sex dreams. lol.. anyway, sounds like a good idea.
I don't see how that would work. Where would the cum go?
We use condoms, except we'll go without for a few days after my period is over. I definitely prefer bare skin but not enough to go back on BC.
Also, the picture at the top of the article freaks me out!
I loved condoms. No difference in feeling for me, it took us all of 30 seconds to put on so no issue with spontaneity, and I didn't have to feel spooge eeking out of my vagina all night. I miss condom sex.
Am I making this up, or was there some talk at one point about a liquid condom that you kind of pour/rub(?) onto the penis and it forms a shield? Maybe I dreamed it in one of my wild sex dreams. lol.. anyway, sounds like a good idea.
I don't see how that would work. Where would the cum go?
We use condoms, except we'll go without for a few days after my period is over. I definitely prefer bare skin but not enough to go back on BC.
Also, the picture at the top of the article freaks me out!
Ah yes, the suffocation picture which you know was chosen by a man. lol
And, I got pregnant with K doing what you two do. Must have been an egg going rogue. lol
I can only tell a difference if we go for a second time and he takes it off. Otherwise, neither of us can tell a big difference. We like the Trojan Bareskins.
Actually, I'm about to go off BCP and we'll be condom-exclusive.
Hmm. I suppose something like that could work - like a spermacide that you put on the guy rather than in the girl. But even then, it would just be the first sperm to die and once the seal was broken the rest would be home free.
Blah. They really need to push a male BCP through!
The difference for me is the lube factor. So yeah you can then use lube, but then that is another thing you need to get out and apply. It just starts to feel too clinical.
And let's not kid ourselves, lube is gross. I always get it all over my hands and then what do I do?? The first time we used it I panicked and just had sex with my hands flared out so they wouldn't touch him/anything.
If we don't use condoms or pull out I need lube b/c my "area" is crazy, crazy sensitive. I won't go into details! But the boys would not have been conceived w/o lube.
Am I making this up, or was there some talk at one point about a liquid condom that you kind of pour/rub(?) onto the penis and it forms a shield? Maybe I dreamed it in one of my wild sex dreams. lol.. anyway, sounds like a good idea.
I don't see how that would work. Where would the cum go?
We use condoms, except we'll go without for a few days after my period is over. I definitely prefer bare skin but not enough to go back on BC.
Also, the picture at the top of the article freaks me out!
We did that once. Have I introduced you to my DS? lol
Condoms are our choice of BC for now. I don't like BC, and condoms are easy enough.
Okay, confession time: I've never had condom-less sex . For several reasons.
Also - has ML already talked about this: link ? Ittears apart the sperm.
whoa.
Now I'm getting all irritated at the knowledge that there are men who will refuse to do this because they don't want a widdle needle sticking into their widdle penises. COME ON.
When I first read it last year, I brought it up to H, and he was like "Dude, let's go to India." Of course, he's had one of his balls straight up taken out, so he's not really squeamish about that shit any more...