I am sick

[soozy87]

That is sick.

[Deleted]

What does this mean? Being "on his list"?

[daisybuchannan]

I'm confused with Stellas.

[Deleted]

ugh. I wonder how he got their names.

My only suggestion is have a plan in place for the kids to get home safely after each game?
Sorry you're dealing with this.

[Deleted]

May 3, 2013 13:29:44 GMT -5 mekiakoo said:

In the meantime I feel helpless for my students. Omg. I'm gonna talk with a counselor (not daisy) and see what I can do for them. I'm just picturing a creeper sitting at their sports meet, oogling over them. WTF is wrong with him?!

That is so scary but I did snort a little fairly loud at the 'not daisy' comment. 

Ugh. I hope they're alright. 

[AHappierHour]

How scary, those poor girls

[sake]

Yeah, what does the list mean? Like was it a list of people to look at their pictures online? or did he have more info, like their addresses? What kind of list are we talking here?

[gault]

There's a big pink suede elephant in this post.

[soozy87]

Probably his list of girls he watches or keeps tabs on.

[Deleted]

It would be easy to get their names from any sort of newspaper (local or school) or on the school's website for sports/marketing purposes. Fucking creepy, though.

[thinkofthesoldiers]

May 3, 2013 13:56:23 GMT -5 soozy87 said:

Probably his list of girls he watches or keeps tabs on.

So he watches/keeps tabs on 400 girls?

Look this sucks for these girls, but I don't think getting worked up over this yet is the way to go. Get more information from the authorities before getting all tragic about it.

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May 3, 2013 13:51:47 GMT -5 mekiakoo said:

May 3, 2013 13:34:06 GMT -5 @stellasmom said:

What does this mean? Being "on his list"?

I honestly don't know. Just that he has a list of girls that he has written down. Their names. I'm not sure if I want to know the details, but maybe we will find out.

I would assume it's the same sort of thing as like a school shooting targets list. When I was in middle school a girl got caught with one and was expelled. They sent letters home to the parents of all of the kids who were on the list. So, just.... people who are targets.

[Deleted]

Ummm....

[thinkofthesoldiers]

May 3, 2013 14:13:47 GMT -5 mekiakoo said:

I agree, this isn't something we should be freaking out about since we don't really know the details. This is just weird and creepy. It just sickens me to see my students all worried because of this man.

I'm emailing back and forth with a counselor so I am prepared to allow my students discuss their concerns with me.

The wound is still fresh for me too, with the FIL situation so this kind of hits home with me.

Look, I get this, but everything is always do damn dramatic when you post about it. Not everything in life has to be "ZOMG!!! *insert emotional reaction*" I just went back and reread some of the posts you've made in the past month or so (threads you've started) and it just seems like you immediately go to the highest form of reaction. You are going to have to settle the fuck down or when this kid gets here, you are going to be the next Nu.

[snickers]

Wow,
that is freaking sick, and you must be really shaken. Those poor girls. Although, I am glad they are at least aware of it. I can't believe he will be getting out in June, knowing there is a list of 400 girls he wants to violate (I mean I know a list is not enough to convict someone) but come on. He should at least have to be in a secure facility, not his own freaking home not far from the school he got those girls names from.
*Shivers*

[thinkofthesoldiers]

May 3, 2013 14:27:38 GMT -5 mekiakoo said:

May 3, 2013 14:22:52 GMT -5 thinkofthesoldiers said:

Look, I get this, but everything is always do damn dramatic when you post about it. Not everything in life has to be "ZOMG!!! *insert emotional reaction*" I just went back and reread some of the posts you've made in the past month or so (threads you've started) and it just seems like you immediately go to the highest form of reaction. You are going to have to settle the fuck down or when this kid gets here, you are going to be the next Nu.

Good to know that you're really invested in my posts.

Isn't it?

[PinkSquirrel]

Mekia, how can you possible have so little self awareness? You are sick over this, yet still stuck by your FIL who, unlike this guy who has seemingly just made a list of teenage girls, actually molested young children. Oh wait, I forgot, you don't "know for sure" when it comes to your FIL, right?

This post is disgusting and not just because of the dude with the list.

[pinkplasticdoll]

Wait so we are going to completely ignore the fact that your fil had a similar list ? So it's ok for teens that are on their way to adulthood to be on someone's list but not for 5-6 year old girls who have lost their innocence due to the actions of some? Either way its completely disturbing but it should be more the wounds are still fresh and it hits close to home, are you fucking kidding me with this? Seriously how about the wounds of those young girls?

[medicmommy]

Seriously?? You guys are fucks.

Sorry Mekia! Hugs to you and your students. I think it's awesome that you are getting suggestions from the counselor on how to best speak with them. It's obvious you are a great teacher and are always very invested in your students.

[thinkofthesoldiers]

Uh holy shit to the pink posters above. Even I didn't go there.

[poppyseed]

What the hell, people?! Pretty sure mekia never excused her FIL's behavior. She's allowed to feel upset for her students over this. Jesus Christ.

[pittsmcgee]

Yeah, whats up with the pink assault?

Weird.

[anlo]

I mean, when TOTS calls you out for going too far, it may be time to evaluate yourself.

[gretchenindisguise]

The pink posse doesn't even make sense for aforementioned reasons.



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[PinkSquirrel]

May 3, 2013 15:11:51 GMT -5 nicbreeful said:

Dude. The fuck?

So mekia can't be upset for her students because of something her FIL did (or might have done)? How does that make sense?

Mekia could be upset for her students if she didn't question whether or not the children her FIL molested were telling the truth.  I do not believe you can be so upset over a list, while not being just as upset over young girls that were molested and have any credibility.  If you question whether or not the multiple young girls were molested and don't truly believe them, then you are not adequately caring about the molestation of 6 year olds.  So, sure she can care about her students, but it makes the lack of caring about those little girls glaringly obvious and I for one can't sit back and watch that kind of hypocrisy.

"He was accused. We have no idea if the accusations are true or not.
Everyday we ask this exact question- was he innocent? Was he guilty? Did
he really hurt these children?
Read more: pandce.proboards.com/search/results?what_all=FIL+court+Mekia&who_only_made_by=0&display_as=0#ixzz2SGM0aq7e"

This still doesn't feel real and it still hurts a lot. Everyday I wonder
WHY, WHY did he do this to the family? And then I come up with so many
possible answers like maybe he wanted to protect us, maybe he was
embarrassed, maybe he was guilty, maybe he couldn't do this anymore,
etc.
Read more: pandce.proboards.com/thread/135025/sympathy-cards#ixzz2SGPLkhYZ

[softspot]

I was coming in to say I lol'd at the "not daisy" comment then BAM. Fuck the pinks.

[gretchenindisguise]

May 3, 2013 15:30:16 GMT -5 PinkSquirrel said:

May 3, 2013 15:11:51 GMT -5 nicbreeful said:

Dude. The fuck?

So mekia can't be upset for her students because of something her FIL did (or might have done)? How does that make sense?

Mekia could be upset for her students if she didn't question whether or not the children her FIL molested were telling the truth.  I do not believe you can be so upset over a list, while not being just as upset over young girls that were molested and have any credibility.  If you question whether or not the multiple young girls were molested and don't truly believe them, then you are not adequately caring about the molestation of 6 year olds.  So, sure she can care about her students, but it makes the lack of caring about those little girls glaringly obvious and I for one can't sit back and watch that kind of hypocrisy.

"He was accused. We have no idea if the accusations are true or not.
Everyday we ask this exact question- was he innocent? Was he guilty? Did
he really hurt these children?
Read more: pandce.proboards.com/search/results?what_all=FIL+court+Mekia&who_only_made_by=0&display_as=0#ixzz2SGM0aq7e"

This still doesn't feel real and it still hurts a lot. Everyday I wonder
WHY, WHY did he do this to the family? And then I come up with so many
possible answers like maybe he wanted to protect us, maybe he was
embarrassed, maybe he was guilty, maybe he couldn't do this anymore,
etc.
Read more: pandce.proboards.com/thread/135025/sympathy-cards#ixzz2SGPLkhYZ

How well versed are you in the stages of grief?



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May 3, 2013 15:34:16 GMT -5 softspot said:

I was coming in to say I lol'd at the "not daisy" comment then BAM. Fuck the pinks.

I snorted out loud. My next door cube neighbor asked me if I was okay. 

[poppyseed]

May 3, 2013 15:30:16 GMT -5 PinkSquirrel said:

May 3, 2013 15:11:51 GMT -5 nicbreeful said:

Dude. The fuck?

So mekia can't be upset for her students because of something her FIL did (or might have done)? How does that make sense?

Mekia could be upset for her students if she didn't question whether or not the children her FIL molested were telling the truth.  I do not believe you can be so upset over a list, while not being just as upset over young girls that were molested and have any credibility.  If you question whether or not the multiple young girls were molested and don't truly believe them, then you are not adequately caring about the molestation of 6 year olds.  So, sure she can care about her students, but it makes the lack of caring about those little girls glaringly obvious and I for one can't sit back and watch that kind of hypocrisy.

"He was accused. We have no idea if the accusations are true or not.
Everyday we ask this exact question- was he innocent? Was he guilty? Did
he really hurt these children?
Read more: pandce.proboards.com/search/results?what_all=FIL+court+Mekia&who_only_made_by=0&display_as=0#ixzz2SGM0aq7e"

This still doesn't feel real and it still hurts a lot. Everyday I wonder
WHY, WHY did he do this to the family? And then I come up with so many
possible answers like maybe he wanted to protect us, maybe he was
embarrassed, maybe he was guilty, maybe he couldn't do this anymore,
etc.
Read more: pandce.proboards.com/thread/135025/sympathy-cards#ixzz2SGPLkhYZ

How the fuck do you know how upset/not upset she is, or anyone else in their family is over the whole thing??


Answer:  You don't.