So I only sometimes give out my number on match and decided to after a few emails with this guy. Generally I am like "text is easier, nice" whatnot if I really want to talk or get to know someone before going out....this time I only put "oh here is my number."
Just responded to his email on when is a good time to call - I have never gone out or talked via phone with anyone from match or any other new guy besides my first IRL relationship post divorce and all.
Breathe-breathe. He may not even call. I suck at phone sometimes. AHHHH!
He knows you have a child right? I always use them as my excuse. I say, "My house is in chaos during daylight hours, so texting is always easier!" You could always email back and say something like that.
That is what I usually do - however I just replied to his time email - because frankly I need to grow some and a guy that may call rather than text has a chance to turn out less douche.....Ok well that was my rational.
We will see what happens. Gotta love the "online now" function of match, lol. Beer is in fridge if need be. Crap. LOL
He did call and we talked for over an hour! It was really great conversation - he did ask me out at the end too! So really excited, hopefully dinner this week - have to grab a sitter (which is most likely my mom who is freaked out that I will meet an abducting stranger on match who will never return me to my family).
Very excited! I also have dinner with a kind of new girlfriend on Tuesday which my dad is sitting for - hate to ask him twice in one week - but I may. Stupid giddy feeling after 11pm at night, happy I grew some and it went well though. Ah! excited.