Help with my dating profile?

[Bernadine]

I'm thinking maybe I should include a little blurb about my separation. Something like "Full disclosure- I'm currently separated, and have a few more months until I can file for divorce. There is no chance for reconciliation and limited drama involved. I'm looking forward to moving on to the next stage of my life."

What do you think? Should I even say anything?

[formerlyak]

Honestly, I think you should wait until you can file for divorce until you have an online profile for the following reasons:

1. Even though you say "no drama," that line screams "DRAMA!!"

2. You get more hits when you first start out because your profile is new and you can search by that. If guys see that line in your profile, I have a feeling most will skip you simply because of what you wrote here -- you aren't divorced, and haven't even been able to file yet. So then great potential dates may skip you and not come back because you aren't new and they will assume they saw you and skipped you for some reason.

Wait to play ...

[starryfish]

Are you in one of those crappy states that requires a 1 year waiting period before you can file?

If so, then its probably not needed, since most people in ur state are aware of those rules...

[Bernadine]

Yes, one year. I state that I'm separated, so I guess I'll just leave it at that.

I plan on making a new profile when I'm divorced )