Hope you get the outcome you are hoping for and is best for your DD!
I honestly don't know what I'm hoping for. I am a giant bag of emotions over that. I just know what we have going on isn't working, and it's really affecting my other two kids. It's affecting my marriage and our happiness. And she's violent and I worry about all of our (and I'm including her in this) safety.
That sounds so stressful. I hope you can all get the help that you need. You're a good mom, hang in there!