Speaking of dumb. I'll never understand

[dana2006]

some women. Like those that went gaga over the young Boston bomber.   Or the woman who got engaged to Joran van der Sloot while he's serving a 28-year sentence for killing a Peruvian woman, and let's not forget the Natalie Holloway case:

www.hlntv.com/article/2013/05/31/joran-van-der-sloot-engaged-peruvian-leydi-figueroa-uceda?hpt=hp_t2

[Deleted]

No lie! I was walking in the mall last week and they have an actual airbrush kiosk that does all manner of products (tees, hats, etc) and one of them they had displayed as an example for all the world to see said "Free Dzhokhar" with pinks and purples all around it so I assume it was some dumb teenage girl's shirt.

[luckyval]

May 31, 2013 15:50:39 GMT -5 @libellula said:

No lie! I was walking in the mall last week and they have an actual airbrush kiosk that does all manner of products (tees, hats, etc) and one of them they had displayed as an example for all the world to see said "Free Dzhokhar" with pinks and purples all around it so I assume it was some dumb teenage girl's shirt.

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I feel bad for admitting it but I didn't know that was the young one's first name and had only ever heard the last name so I had to look it up on my phone. If I had known at that moment I might have had to spill my drink all over it.

[laddie]

May 31, 2013 15:50:39 GMT -5 @libellula said:

No lie! I was walking in the mall last week and they have an actual airbrush kiosk that does all manner of products (tees, hats, etc) and one of them they had displayed as an example for all the world to see said "Free Dzhokhar" with pinks and purples all around it so I assume it was some dumb teenage girl's shirt.

[piper]

My sil has a super secret relationship with a guy who is in prison for life. At one point we thought that she might be married to him (I think she is)

She has no idea that we all (except for her parents) know about the "relationship"

It something that I have never understood.

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I don't know if it's still there, but Netflix had a tv show on Instant called "Prison Wives" or something. All of them were women married to men in prison for life and stuff.

[jane6672]

May 31, 2013 16:32:53 GMT -5 piper said:

My sil has a super secret relationship with a guy who is in prison for life. At one point we thought that she might be married to him (I think she is)

She has no idea that we all (except for her parents) know about the "relationship"

It something that I have never understood.

How did everyone find out?

[piper]

May 31, 2013 17:45:34 GMT -5 jane6672 said:

May 31, 2013 16:32:53 GMT -5 piper said:

My sil has a super secret relationship with a guy who is in prison for life. At one point we thought that she might be married to him (I think she is)

She has no idea that we all (except for her parents) know about the "relationship"

It something that I have never understood.

How did everyone find out?

She moved in with one of the sisters and didn't grab the mail in time one day. Other sister found stuff addressed to sil with inmate's last name and inmate

One of my bils is an attorney and ran a background check and found out about the life sentence.

She takes off for a week at a time several times a year. We found out that she goes to visit him and claims that she is traveling for work, etc.

[snickers]

May 31, 2013 17:58:32 GMT -5 piper said:

May 31, 2013 17:45:34 GMT -5 jane6672 said:

How did everyone find out?

She moved in with one of the sisters and didn't grab the mail in time one day. Other sister found stuff addressed to sil with inmate's last name and inmate

One of my bils is an attorney and ran a background check and found out about the life sentence.

She takes off for a week at a time several times a year. We found out that she goes to visit him and claims that she is traveling for work, etc.

Holy shit, what is he in prison for?

[piper]

May 31, 2013 19:02:14 GMT -5 snickers said:

May 31, 2013 17:58:32 GMT -5 piper said:

She moved in with one of the sisters and didn't grab the mail in time one day. Other sister found stuff addressed to sil with inmate's last name and inmate

One of my bils is an attorney and ran a background check and found out about the life sentence.

She takes off for a week at a time several times a year. We found out that she goes to visit him and claims that she is traveling for work, etc.

Holy shit, what is he in prison for?

Murder.

[snickers]

May 31, 2013 19:03:06 GMT -5 piper said:

May 31, 2013 19:02:14 GMT -5 snickers said:

Holy shit, what is he in prison for?

Murder.

I figured.
That's too close to home for comfort. Jesus.

[piper]

May 31, 2013 19:05:24 GMT -5 snickers said:

May 31, 2013 19:03:06 GMT -5 piper said:

Murder.

I figured.
That's too close to home for comfort. Jesus.

Way too close.

I lost a ton of respect for her when I found out. It was the one major secret that I kept from dh and he was devastated when he found out

[psychmom]

Was he already in prison when the relationship started?

[piper]

May 31, 2013 19:34:07 GMT -5 psychmom said:

Was he already in prison when the relationship started?

I don't think so.

[piper]

May 31, 2013 20:10:03 GMT -5 ste said:

May 31, 2013 19:40:40 GMT -5 nicbreeful said:

They all think they can be the ones that will "save" them.  You know, with love.

:-# I'll never understand.

Even when they're never getting out? Save them from what, exactly?

I think she feels like the relationship is "safe". She was hurt deeply by a fiancé who cheated. She has always had terrible self-esteem.

He can't cheat.

Well, with women anyway.

[eehee]

I work in a prison and I am constantly surprised by the women who come in to visit.