I'll just set this here

[christidee]

While looking through various bumb boards I found this.

community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74261930.aspx

the crazy from June is back on SAHM! Enjoy!

[heyjojo]

OMG! I saw that the other day. I admit, I have no interest in posting on the bump but still lurk and DAAAAAAMMMMN they have some crazy goin on up in there. I think I spent a good hour reading all the back and forth drama surrounding those two!

[katfco]

Oh yeah, I still lurk on there, and it was an insane couple of days. I can give a bit of a recap if you're interested, because this was the end of it.

[The Foozzler]

Jun 2, 2013 5:36:21 GMT -5 katfco said:

Oh yeah, I still lurk on there, and it was an insane couple of days. I can give a bit of a recap if you're interested, because this was the end of it.

Recap! Recap! Recap!

[katfco]

Well, it started when her friend, Alicia, posted something from her BMB on the SAHM board. A woman on her board had said she felt she really needed to do CIO for her 10 month old. Alicia apparently blasted her for it and then shared the link on the SAHM board, ostensibly to get the SAHMs to go over and support her.

Well, her siggy picture had been changed to a picture of her and her friend, Allison. The SAHMs (and I think the June moms too, not sure) took that as a deliberate slap in the face, kind of letting them know that she was still friends with her, still saw her, and likely didn't care about Allison's H. And that they had given Allison money because her H couldn't get a job.

This led to lots of posts about mostly Alicia and how horrible she was for a) being friends with this girl and her H and b) not disclosing info about Allison's H when collecting money for Allison when she was pregnant.

This led to some posts getting deleted or locked by mods and assumptions that it was Alicia herself who deleted them, calls for Alicia to be removed as a mod, etc.

After a few days, Alicia responded saying she knows all about the H, doesn't care because they "know" him and trust him over police reports. (although she also said he's never left alone with her child)

Allison made that post, and a few other AEs after her initial SN was banned.

Finally, Alicia was removed as a mod.

[The Foozzler]

Ah, I was wondering about the money thing. Thanks for the summary!

[katfco]

Jun 2, 2013 6:33:54 GMT -5 The Foozzler said:

Ah, I was wondering about the money thing. Thanks for the summary!

Yeah, she had been on bed rest and was having a rough time because her H couldn't get a job so they took up a collection for her to get her a cleaning lady (and had several hundred extra they also gave her). Then it came out about her H and a lot of people apparently felt swindled.

[thedahliharpa]

Mobile like for the recap katfco

[Deleted]

Wowzers. That is some crazy. And, reason number 42 I'm glad we are here, and they are there.

[christidee]

I knew the relative back story from way back when, but dang!

[monkeybabe]

I remember reading about Allison before, but the crazy shit keeps on, I guess.

[monkeybabe]

Jun 2, 2013 11:27:50 GMT -5 @pcloadletter said:

Ok I don't understand why you need a cleaning lady if your H is unemployed and you have no kids

Apparently, on top of her H being a registered sex offender, he's also a lazy POS.

[katfco]

Jun 2, 2013 11:27:50 GMT -5 @pcloadletter said:

Ok I don't understand why you need a cleaning lady if your H is unemployed and you have no kids

Well, I may be misremembering. I know some of the money went to a cleaning lady, but I'm not sure if that was the original reason or they put the extra toward it.

[christidee]

Jun 2, 2013 11:27:50 GMT -5 @pcloadletter said:

Ok I don't understand why you need a cleaning lady if your H is unemployed and you have no kids

Yeah. I was wondering that too, actually. My dh is hurt. He has surgically repaired shoulders that are still healing and a hurt neck. He still does the majority of the cleaning around here.