Nervous about telling people Im PG

[AHappierHour]

It's almost time to let the cat out of the bag and Im nervous. I know some people will judge us for still not being married, me having a 4th kid. I understand all this and I get it. I'm really enjoying being PG, I feel great and I don't want these feelings to go away. This IS my last PG (I'm having a hysterectomy after Im healed and done nursing) and I just want to enjoy it.

We are working on getting married.We are going to Vegas tomorrow and will be looking at a few venues. (Yay!!)


I don't know where Im going with this, it's just on my mind lately.

[polka]

They are probably the same people who judge married couples who don't want kids. You can't win. Screw 'em!

I don't know your back story either. But don't let worrying about other people's reactions take away from the happiness you're feeling. If they judge, they judge. Who cares what they think? Like you said, this is your last pregnancy. So enjoy it, and put your focus on other stuff like where you are getting married or what you will wear for your wedding.

[Jalapeñomel]

Who cares what they say.

[Deleted]

eh, you know that some people will judge so you're prepared. they're probably assholes anyway.

good luck. i hope you're pleasantly surprised.

[RoxMonster]

There will always be someone judging you for something. Some people I know judge me very vocally for not wanting kids. You can never win. Try to put them out of your mind and don't let it spoil your happiness.

[wannabe]

screw 'em. live your life, girl.

[Deleted]

Meh. We aren't married and I'm KO'ed. We're good with it so if anyone has a problem with it (and I'm sure my mother will) they can figure their own shit out.

[snickers]

People talk no matter what, enjoy it and ignore them.