I was pumping gas at a gas station after work in my scrubs and a guy pulls up to the pump on the other side of me. He got out of his car and he was wearing scrubs that physicians typically wear at local hospital. I could see out of the corner of my eye he was checking me out and I heard him mumble please don't be married. He put his hand on his chest all dramatic like and said omg you are stunning. Mind you i worked 9 hours with a day old worth of make up and unbrushd hair from this morning. So anyway I said no I'm not married and he said he was an anesthesiologist. He said if i had a boyfriend then he wouldn't have to know. My gut feeling says this is trouble and i need tho run the other way..right? Ugh. I swear I attract all the wrong ones.
Ha ha. I thought cheesy too and how many woman do you think he has tried this on already. I heard cha ching too when he said anesthesiologist. I mean he was driving a Porsche. Anyway, I'm not that person who hours after guys with money but my last guy was such a financial strain and emotional rollercoaster its a nice change. I just think he is being fake. He called me already but I'm ignoring it for now.
yeah that part scares me thinking he could be married or something since he said that. He did day he just got out of a relationship. I need to ask the cardiologists I work with if they know him.
And if he's trying to get a date by just laying it out there that he's an anesthesiologist as part of his first couple sentences to you, then he's also probably a douchebag. Run. Because seriously, what would you think of a guy who was like "so, I make a ton of cash at my super awesome corporate job at xyz business, wanna go out?" This is no different, except he has to take call, and can thus easily lie about his schedule to pick up other girls. I mean, if it's cool for you to cheat in order to date him, his stance on monogamy is questionable at best.
I swear I'm not drunkwith all of these typos. And no i didn't fuck him in the bathroom ha ha. Which another thing he said to me that made me laugh bc of the cheese factor was...he asked me if i was a natural red head. I said no but I'm a natural brunette. Ha i don't even color my hair
Post by birdistheword on Jun 4, 2013 18:21:12 GMT -5
I second just talking to him on the phone a bit or something. People can make bad first impressions or act like cheesy idiots when nervous. He could turn out to actually be a creep, of course, but maybe you can determine this with a few phone calls or texts.
I second just talking to him on the phone a bit or something. People can make bad first impressions or act like cheesy idiots when nervous. He could turn out to actually be a creep, of course, but maybe you can determine this with a few phone calls or texts.
Disagree.
I know a number of guys in fields that tend to attract socially awkward people (meaning - these people are great doctors, but have not so great bedside manners, so be happy they're working behind the scenes), including anesthesia. Not everyone in these fields is awkward/nervous/makes strange first impressions, but many are. They are all good guys, and would all probably give off a very strange first impression, but not a single one of them would lead with their profession as part of the intro. Nope. That part is just douchey.
I second just talking to him on the phone a bit or something. People can make bad first impressions or act like cheesy idiots when nervous. He could turn out to actually be a creep, of course, but maybe you can determine this with a few phone calls or texts.
Disagree.
I know a number of guys in fields that tend to attract socially awkward people (meaning - these people are great doctors, but have not so great bedside manners, so be happy they're working behind the scenes), including anesthesia. Not everyone in these fields is awkward/nervous/makes strange first impressions, but many are. They are all good guys, and would all probably give off a very strange first impression, but not a single one of them would lead with their profession as part of the intro. Nope. That part is just douchey.
Yes, that is definitely douchey. I'm just always guilty of giving people the benefit of the doubt to a fault, lol.
Sounds like he is probably a tool. Porsche, anesthesiologist announcement, shady boyfriend comment, etc. he is probably one of those guys that every woman he works with thinks he is scum and he thinks they all wish he was their boyfriend.
Ha thanks ladies. I'm just going to run my guy encounters pass you i really need a nice ambitious guy in my life. My gut feeling says no on this one too. When i was younger i totally would've bit the bait but I already have trust issues with this one. I am a douche magnet.
I googled douche magnet to see if I could find something funny. Most of the image results were save the date magnets.
ha ha.if i could get my computer to work i could probably make one. I'm sure every girl at one point in her life has felt like she attracts only the douches thought??