I am furious.

[hisno1girl]

I don't think I have ever been this mad at DH in all the time I have known him.

I have made it clear that under no circumstances whatsoever is he allowed to keep, transport, or use weed in my car.  I don't have an objection to him smoking it (obviously, since I smoked it myself) but on the off chance that I ever got pulled over (which would totally be my luck) I could get into serious legal trouble if there was weed in my car. It's legal for him to have it, but it's not legal for me to have it and I'm sure an officer wouldn't want to hear a "That's not my weed!" story.

In addition to the legal trouble, I have a morals clause for work. An arrest for possession of drugs would likely result in a termination.

I am so mad right now I can't even talk to him or look at him because I will lose my shit, so I'm sitting in my room having a nice cold beer.

*breathe in*
*breathe out*

*breathe in*
*breathe out*

[Deleted]

I wouldn't freak out about it. DH transports MJ in our car. I know I could sort it out if I were ever pulled over and it was in the vehicle. I don't know the laws of your state, but honestly, it really isn't a big deal. ESPECIALLY if you have not been smoking it and you could offer to take a blood test to prove it isn't yours. No one has the appetite to prosecute a cancer patient's wife for having the cancer patient's MJ in the car.

[BlackCanary]

I would be pissed too!

I transported weed once and I was paranoid the entire time. And then my car smelled like week for a while. 

[EmilieMadison]

I'm guessing he left weed in your car?
RAGE.

[BlackCanary]

Jun 7, 2013 15:45:50 GMT -5 elle said:

I wouldn't freak out about it. DH transports MJ in our car. I know I could sort it out if I were ever pulled over and it was in the vehicle. I don't know the laws of your state, but honestly, it really isn't a big deal. ESPECIALLY if you have not been smoking it and you could offer to take a blood test to prove it isn't yours. No one has the appetite to prosecute a cancer patient's wife for having the cancer patient's MJ in the car.

Good point. 

[julez]

So he left some in your car? Not okay. What's worse than him having done it is his disregard for your reasons for not wanting him to do it. I am pissed for you.

[Gato]

Did he say he wouldn't do it anymore? Or did you just find it? I'm sorry!

My BIL got busted for possession while living with my MIL and she was about to kill him.

[sparkythelawyer]

Ugh. Bad move, DH. Bad move.

[nomad100]

I would be pissed too. I can only imagine that there would be lots of screaming, swearing and stomping in my house. And then lots of petting of soft dog ears since that is soothing.

I get what the PP is saying about you will probably be able to get it all squared away but at the same time, all that could take time to get sorted out so you wouldn't get fired. Time you wouldn't have to spend if you DH didn't carry or use weed in your car.

[fryjack2]

How much weed are we talking? Its legal here to have basically a dime bag or a joint. I can't remember. I think even if you got pulled over, as elle said, it would be pretty easy to explain. Even if it meant a trip to the police station while it was sorted out.

But yeah, it does suck that he didn't respect your wishes. Sorry.

[Jalapeñomel]

Why did he pull it out or stash it in your car anyway? Was he smoking it in your car?

[hisno1girl]

Jun 7, 2013 15:56:07 GMT -5 Jalapeñomel said:

Why did he pull it out or stash it in your car anyway? Was he smoking it in your car?

He wasn't smoking it in my car. I'd have his balls if he did that. I think he just forgot it was there. The only reason I found is because I had to brake hard and it rolled out from under the seat.

[snickers]

Yeah, I would be pissed.

[daisybuchannan]

I'd be pissed, but would let it go.

[hisno1girl]

Jun 7, 2013 15:45:50 GMT -5 elle said:

I wouldn't freak out about it. DH transports MJ in our car. I know I could sort it out if I were ever pulled over and it was in the vehicle. I don't know the laws of your state, but honestly, it really isn't a big deal. ESPECIALLY if you have not been smoking it and you could offer to take a blood test to prove it isn't yours. No one has the appetite to prosecute a cancer patient's wife for having the cancer patient's MJ in the car.

That sounds like a plan, but the fact that he disregarded my feelings on this matter is what's really pissing me off.

I *hate* it when people say shit like this but a Mexican with weed in their car is in all probability going to get arrested.  Ain't nobody got time for that!!

[Gato]

Jun 7, 2013 15:59:07 GMT -5 hisno1girl said:

Jun 7, 2013 15:56:07 GMT -5 Jalapeñomel said:

Why did he pull it out or stash it in your car anyway? Was he smoking it in your car?

He wasn't smoking it in my car. I'd have his balls if he did that. I think he just forgot it was there. The only reason I found is because I had to brake hard and it rolled out from under the seat.

I'm sorry this happened, but this is a funny image!