Bachelorette Party (the wrath continues)

[achase123]

The wrath of my bridezilla friend that is. I'm already worried about making sure things go smoothly and that she's going to be unhappy. I got an email from one of the bridesmaids who won't be able to attend because her grandfather is having heart surgery. The bride is very upset about this and commented about how "selfish" the bridesmaid is being. :-| Really?

I'm consoling myself with the fact that I'll be able to drink copious amounts of alcohol in attempt to make it more bearable.

[Deleted]

SHUT UP! She sounds awful. You sound like you are being a saint. Pretty sure I wouldn't have told her by now where to put her selfish comment. And yes copious amounts of alcohol!

[trafficgirl]

Duuuude. She needs to be clocked upside the head.

Why/how are you friends with this person? You've probably already said this given the copious amounts of bridezilla behavior she's displayed, but I'm forgetting.

And copious amounts of bridezilla behaviour definitely = copius amounts of alcohol needed.

[wrathofkuus]

I think now is the time for a come to Jesus (or my late guinea pig Frederick, if you're not religious) talk with the bride.

[formerlyak]

Is this your bff or a different bride in your life? If bff, I highly recommend you tell her that said bridesmaid who can't attend because she has to be with her family when her grandfather has surgery is far from selfish and she needs to get over it.

[letyourselfgo]

This bridezilla isn't a bridezilla at all.....she's a Bitchzilla.
Just sayin'

I am sorry that you have to deal with this.

[achase123]

Jun 13, 2012 13:47:39 GMT -5 formerlyak said:

Is this your bff or a different bride in your life? If bff, I highly recommend you tell her that said bridesmaid who can't attend because she has to be with her family when her grandfather has surgery is far from selfish and she needs to get over it.

I think it's about that time to have a serious talk with her.

She is someone I've known my whole life but it's become increasingly more difficult to be as close as we once were because of the way she acts.

AK-it's not my BFF (who was taking care of P when I was in LA). My BFF is the definition of SELFLESS. She's an amazing person.

[BlueBayou]

Sounds like she needs to be brought back down to earth! Absolutely insensitive to be upset over a friend whose family member is in that state. Maybe you need to take her to volunteer a few hours at a homeless shelter and let her see how fucked up her priorities are. ( sorry i had to take advantage of this awesome new swearing ability). I hope this is a good friend for you to go through this. She has lost her center.

[BookLover]

Jun 13, 2012 13:49:45 GMT -5 letyourselfgo said:

This bridezilla isn't a bridezilla at all.....she's a Bitchzilla.
Just sayin'

I am sorry that you have to deal with this.

Word!

Like Kuus said, it's time for a come to Jesus talk that or hit her upside the head with a bat.

[heavenly]

Her expectations are way too high! You are a good friend though.

[stephbfan]

Jun 13, 2012 13:47:39 GMT -5 formerlyak said:

Is this your bff or a different bride in your life? If bff, I highly recommend you tell her that said bridesmaid who can't attend because she has to be with her family when her grandfather has surgery is far from selfish and she needs to get over it.

Whether she is the BFF or not you need to say something about it.

[dakotadangerdog]

That is ridiculous!!!

One of my childhood friends is getting married, she told me she wanted to have multiple engagement parties so she could get more gifts, since not many people will be going to the ceremony, since she's having it in HAWAII. I bailed on all of the pre-wedding parties partly due to that lol.