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ballandchain New Member Posts: 120 Likes: 8	It's over. Again. Jun 18, 2013 15:09:37 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by ballandchain on Jun 18, 2013 15:09:37 GMT -5 Went in for an ultrasound today at what should have been 9w5d. No heartbeat and the baby measured 7w5d. Can't believe we are back here again.
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2brides Full Member Posts: 1,168 Likes: 43	It's over. Again. Jun 18, 2013 15:10:33 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by 2brides on Jun 18, 2013 15:10:33 GMT -5 OMG. I can't believe it. I am so sorry. ((HUGS))
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seattlekari Junior Member Posts: 591 Likes: 15	It's over. Again. Jun 18, 2013 15:39:36 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by seattlekari on Jun 18, 2013 15:39:36 GMT -5 Dammit. I'm so sorry ballandchain. Sending hugs your way...
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twotrue Senior Member Mod of LGBT Households Posts: 5,041 Likes: 4,990	It's over. Again. Jun 18, 2013 15:46:10 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by twotrue on Jun 18, 2013 15:46:10 GMT -5 I'm so very sorry. sent by phone
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never2amazing New Member Posts: 268 Likes: 4	It's over. Again. Jun 18, 2013 16:43:41 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by never2amazing on Jun 18, 2013 16:43:41 GMT -5 ((Hugs)) I am so sorry! Take care.
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bluedaisyus Full Member Posts: 1,246 Likes: 1,299	It's over. Again. Jun 18, 2013 17:58:01 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by bluedaisyus on Jun 18, 2013 17:58:01 GMT -5 Oh fuck. I am so, so sorry.
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ssg73 Full Member Posts: 1,200 Likes: 1,820	It's over. Again. Jun 18, 2013 18:25:16 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by ssg73 on Jun 18, 2013 18:25:16 GMT -5 I am so sorry. Hugs
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Duchess1 New Member Posts: 275 Likes: 10	It's over. Again. Jun 18, 2013 20:43:26 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Duchess1 on Jun 18, 2013 20:43:26 GMT -5 I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you.
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kershnic Senior Member Posts: 8,603 Likes: 9,485	It's over. Again. Jun 18, 2013 21:29:35 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by kershnic on Jun 18, 2013 21:29:35 GMT -5 I'm so sad for you every time I think of you. But you're going to be okay, and you're going to be a mom.
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ct Junior Member Posts: 791 Likes: 24	It's over. Again. Jun 19, 2013 8:15:11 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by ct on Jun 19, 2013 8:15:11 GMT -5 oh no no, no, no, no!! i'm so sorry
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quinny New Member Posts: 302 Likes: 10	It's over. Again. Jun 19, 2013 8:48:06 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by quinny on Jun 19, 2013 8:48:06 GMT -5 I can't believe it. I am so, so sorry.
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Post by ballandchain on Jun 19, 2013 11:30:41 GMT -5

Thanks everyone. I realized yesterday that the baby died on/around the day I had to put our cat to sleep. WTF is that about??? Hey universe...how about a fucking break? 2013 was supposed to be the good fresh start that was going to make up for the suckitude of 2012. But I guess not.

We are doing OK. Had my mw appointment this morning and talked about our options, then scheduled the D&C for Monday and met with the OB who will be doing it. We know the routine and there is oddly some comfort in knowing what to expect. They're going to test the tissue for chromosomal abnormalities and my RE will take it from there as far as testing me, maybe testing the remaining embryos, potentially trying to get the donor tested, and/or abandoning our embryos to start over with a new donor. But that is all weeks from now...right now we're just trying to work through this. I'm hoping we can benefit from taking the summer to recharge, get healthier, and maybe have a little bit of fun.

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thiswillbe Junior Member Posts: 814 Likes: 284	It's over. Again. Jun 19, 2013 15:48:44 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by thiswillbe on Jun 19, 2013 15:48:44 GMT -5 I'm so sorry for your loss.
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cymru New Member Posts: 252 Likes: 1	It's over. Again. Jun 19, 2013 17:41:27 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by cymru on Jun 19, 2013 17:41:27 GMT -5 So sorry for your loss.
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awkwardpenguin Senior Member Posts: 7,713 Likes: 7,785	It's over. Again. Jun 19, 2013 18:04:03 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by awkwardpenguin on Jun 19, 2013 18:04:03 GMT -5 Oh god, I am so sorry and so sad for you. (((hugs))) and tears.
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foryourboy New Member Posts: 68 Likes: 2	It's over. Again. Jun 20, 2013 16:10:37 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by foryourboy on Jun 20, 2013 16:10:37 GMT -5 Oh, I am very sorry
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