Possible hypothetical situation...Wwpb do?

[christidee]

We have a 1/52 chance of this happening.

My best friend is getting married on the east coast. DH's best friend is getting married in the mid west. We live in California. These are both of our longest childhood friends. I've been friends with mine since kindergarten. 

There is a possibility that their weddings might be the same weekend. 

Wwyd? Obviously we will go to the weddings separately if they are the same weekend. Missing one of these is not an option. But what about J?

[irishsara]

I would bring J to either the most kid friendly ceremony, or find someone to watch him at home?

[irishsara]

But if I'm honest, he would come with me.

[ruby412]

I would try not to worry about it quite yet. Odds are low that this will happen!

But if it did, V and I roll together, always.

ETA: Or she'd stay with my parents. But I wouldn't send her alone with H.

[The Foozzler]

Will kids be invited to both? I have never brought Tyler to a wedding.

[careyalis]

Blake would spend the weekend with Grandma. (This is if I ever get over the too freaked out to leave him phase)

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Jun 26, 2013 9:43:06 GMT -5 careyalis said:

Blake would spend the weekend with Grandma. (This is if I ever get over the too freaked out to leave him phase)

Don't feel bad. I left Ada for the first time overnight at 13 months and we were only gone one night and an hour away!

[katfco]

If I was just a guest at the wedding, I'd take him with me. If I was in the wedding party, I'd either send him with H or find someone to watch him.

[AndyCohen]

If you have someone you trust, I would leave him at home with them. I've travelled alone with Audrey and its doable, but stressful and I am usually looking forward to the day H comes and gives me a break (he usually joins me a few days later so he doesn't have to take vacation days). If I had the option of leaving her home, I would take it. I wouldn't want to deal with her alone, at a wedding with loud music, but all of the weddings I've been to haven't been kid friendly, so that's just my personal experience.

[raynes]

If it makes you feel any better, the odds of that happening are actually 1/2704 (1/52 x 1/52).

To answer your question, it would be depend on my and my H's level of involvement in the wedding as well as what sort of wedding it was. If either of us were in one of the wedding parties, and the other wedding was at all formal-ish, LO would probably stay with grandma.

[christidee]

Jun 26, 2013 9:59:22 GMT -5 raynes said:

If it makes you feel any better, the odds of that happening are actually 1/2704 (1/52 x 1/52).

To answer your question, it would be depend on my and my H's level of involvement in the wedding as well as what sort of wedding it was. If either of us were in one of the wedding parties, and the other wedding was at all formal-ish, LO would probably stay with grandma.

Ahhhh, thanks. That makes me feel better. I know it is early, but I like to have my bases covered. There is a good chance both of us will be in the wedding parties. 

I guess I could leave J with the ILs for a night.

[teamhayes]

Where on the east coast? I am nosey.

[skiesthelimit]

If we were only to be gone 1 weekend, X would probably stay with my mom.

[twirlermom]

Jun 26, 2013 9:41:36 GMT -5 jamaicam said:

J would either come with me or would stay home with my parents. Depends on how childfriendly the wedding is.

This is probably what I would do as well.

[bean47]

This is happening to us in a few weeks. I'm in the wedding for my childhood friend but we had already planned to go to one of DH very best friend's wedding the same day (my friend got engaged and set the date quite some time after his friend had already sent save the dates and been engaged for some time). He's going to his, I'm going to mine We don't have the distance factor you do though since both are within a few hours drive. My parents will come to watch her at our house that night.

I hope you don't have to worry about it and they pick separate dates. If they are on the same day I would have family watch your LO and split up for the weddings.

[christidee]

Jun 26, 2013 10:22:51 GMT -5 teamhayes said:

Where on the east coast? I am nosey.

Annapolis

[teamhayes]

Beautiful area. I was hoping it would be MA so we all could try to get together.

[kdrake8]

Jun 26, 2013 9:43:06 GMT -5 careyalis said:

Blake would spend the weekend with Grandma. (This is if I ever get over the too freaked out to leave him phase)

this would be my first thought.

If I couldn't bring myself to do this... She'd come with me.

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Jun 26, 2013 10:42:20 GMT -5 christidee said:

Jun 26, 2013 10:22:51 GMT -5 teamhayes said:

Where on the east coast? I am nosey.

Annapolis

That's not too far from me!

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