Post by nogutsnoglory on Jun 14, 2012 18:44:49 GMT -5
Hi everyone,
I intro'd back in March on TN but didn't keep up much as I was busy dealing with the shitstorm after my H walked out on me.
Cliffs notes: STBXH and I dated for 6 years, married in 09, he walked out in March of this year. Things had been rocky for over a year, more so since I had a miscarriage in Dec 2010. I realize now that he did me the biggest favour. He was emotionally absent for a long time and I was blind to a lot of behaviours/red flags, because I was committed to making it work. It took him all of 5 minutes to tell me he was out, reason being that he did not want to "try" (ie. work) at making things right. He's been a special kind of monster during our separation, for no reason really, since we have no assets and little equity in a house (money pit) that I walked away from.
So now I am all moved in to a great apartment and finally getting excited about moving forward. I was in therapy weekly for two months and will probably start again in July. It got really expensive and I have some cash flow concerns for another month or so while my new budget balances out. I am finding more strength, every day, than I ever knew I had so I'm in a good place at the moment.
My dog is great company and I have a few great girlfriends that keep me busy and entertained.
I look forward to spending some time here and getting to know you all!