Cousin in law vent

[blondemoment123]

My H's cousin is on my last nerve. He made a FB post about seeing his family in TX. Someone mentioned how nice it is that he's visiting family and the cousin went on to say how he sees his family in TX more than his family here in SC, meaning my H.

We offered several times to go hang out on the weekend and even give him gas money to drive down here. We only live about 2 hours away. I feel bad because H and his cousin were super close growing up, but then H joined the military and moved away. His cousin is in a major rut to say the least.

I'm just sick of him constantly giving my H guilt trips and making him feel bad. Btw, this is the same cousin who was supposed to bring my MIL to my wedding, but he backed out just hours before. My MIL didn't attend my wedding. :@

[alabasterangel]

Kill him.

[ILikeSloths]

Jun 14, 2012 21:37:18 GMT -5 blondemoment123 said:

I'm just sick of him constantly giving my H guilt trips and making him feel bad. Btw, this is the same cousin who was supposed to bring my MIL to my wedding, but he backed out just hours before. My MIL didn't attend my wedding.

I was JUST about to ask if it was the same cousin before I saw the bolded part because I remember that situation.

He sounds so passive aggressive. Your H should comment on his status.

[blondemoment123]

Killing him wouldn't be a bad idea haha

H hasn't seen it yet. He worked late last night and is already at work now lol. I don't plan on telling him about. I'll let him stumble across it on his own.

[Deleted]

I'd hide him from my news feed.

[OrangePixyStix]

Jun 15, 2012 7:19:02 GMT -5 @psugrad said:

I'd hide him from my news feed.

:Y:

[darkling_glory]

Lame! Your H's cousin sounds like he's got some resentment built up to your husband. Could he be jealous or something?

[OrangePixyStix]

Blonde, I sent you a PM, should be at the top of the screen for you.

[Deleted]

I feel like some people purposely put those things on their FB to either: a) send a passive-aggressive message to someone; and/or b) get responses.

[lizo11]

I agree that it sounds like passive agressive b.s. Sniper rifle?

[shorty20]

Jerkface

[louietunes]

Jun 15, 2012 7:19:02 GMT -5 @psugrad said:

I'd hide him from my news feed.

I'd hide him from my life. Poor baby. So sad that everyone else grew up and he decided not to.

[blondemoment123]

OPS: YGPM back.

I should hide him, but I want to know what mean things he's saying about me and my H. I do it to myself I suppose.

[makemineadouble]

I'd ignore it and not give him the satisfaction, but if you can't stop yourself you could always say, "Cuz, that's so true. DH and I really hope you'll take us up on one of our invitations to hang out!"

And you have to give him gas money to come see you? Acck.

I'm sad for your MIL that she missed your wedding, too. This guy sounds like a nightmare.