I don't like my sister's H. He treats her like a crappy second class citizen and puts her down all the time.
We just found out he's been diagnosed with some type of pretty aggressive cancer. He's starting radiation next week, and possibly chemo if necessary.
I feel terrible for my sister and the situation this puts her in. But. I'm having a hard time rallying my feelings for him. This is making me feel like a terrible person.
Also. I watched the Katy Perry movie and now I kind of like Katy Perry.
Your only duty is to your sister so do what you can for her and don't be rude to the guy with cancer beyond that just because he is sick doesn't erase years of previos behavior.