Guy at my gym

[drtouble]

About a month ago a guy in my gym came up and talked to me. He made a huge point of coming over to meet me and introduce himself. My friend that I was working out with said that she thought he liked me. I wasn't too sure....but over the course of the last few weeks he and I have worked out together on several occasions. I love the fact that he pushes me harder than I push myself and I've enjoyed getting to know him.

My divorce was just final this week however it had really been a long time coming. I'm not looking for anything serious at this point. Anyway....he's given me his phone number......but hasn't asked me out per se. The more time I spend with him at the gym.....the more I'd like to spend with him getting to know him. I just don't know what to think of things.

On several occassions he's asked me what I had planned for the weekend but hasn't in so many words asked me out. Do I just wait and see or should I casually ask him to join me in something. What are your thoughts.

[Deleted]

Casually ask him to do something! I think he's giving you all of the "go" signs, but maybe he's not entirely sure of your situation. Ask him to grab a bite with you after your workout.

[wrathofkuus]

It's not that he hasn't asked you out, apparently, just that he hasn't SUCCESSFULLY asked you out.

Have you ever called him, or reciprocated by giving him your phone number?

[drtouble]

No I haven't but he did indicate that the number he gave me is his cell number and that he does text message as well. Guess I'm a bit rusty......at this whole dating thing.

[starryfish]

Jun 15, 2012 14:26:18 GMT -5 drtouble said:

No I haven't but he did indicate that the number he gave me is his cell number and that he does text message as well. Guess I'm a bit rusty......at this whole dating thing.

Send him a text! He is definitely giving you all the right signals that he likes you. Seems he is unsure if you do or not. Send him a text!

[drtouble]

Thanks ladies.....I'm going to send him a text.

[liubotflittyfud]

Jun 15, 2012 14:30:32 GMT -5 drtouble said:

Thanks ladies.....I'm going to send him a text.

:Y:

[Deleted]

Yeah I think it's pretty clear he wants to see you outside the gym but it also sounds like you haven't really given him any clear signs that you'd be interested. The ball is on your side. I think he's done a lot already. Send him a text and go have a drink with him after your next workout session together!