Haven't spoken to B since Sunday.

[cat19]

Unless it's along the lines of "I'm running to the super market" or "We need diapers."  Don't know when this will change.  We're scheduled to go see my sister on Fire Island on Thursday.  I may tell him just to go to work instead so I can actually enjoy my day.  Would that be completely dick of me?  I have no interest in trying to make up at this point. 

[DesertMoon]

Jul 16, 2013 20:12:46 GMT -5 @pcloadletter said:

Did I miss something?

This, and I'm sorry.

[imimahoney]

I'm sorry for what every is going on.     

[cat19]

No one missed anything, I haven't spoken about it and don't think I will, but he's right in one way and so entirely wrong in another. And the entirely wrong has lead me to not eating around him (yes, I'm eating, don't worry) and not talking to him. He seems to have no interest in talking to me either. I just want to have a nice day at the beach with the kids and my sister and her kids.

[kdrake8]

I'm sorry

[Regina Philange]

I'm sorry. If you feel like you need a day without him then take a day! Feel better.

[cat19]

He is supposed to take the day off.

[robinsparkles430]

I'm so sorry. Hugs.

[The Foozzler]

I am sorry that things are not great in your house right now. If B coming is going to ruin your otherwise fun day, tell him not to come. Unless that will cause an even bigger rift between you. Do what you think is best for you and for your relationship.

I hope this get better soon!

[TrudyCampbell]

Cat, I'm sorry. If he made a comment about your weight then he's a total dickface that should be kissing your feet.

I hope you guys can work things out.

[cat19]

It wasn't about weight either, I just like enjoying my food.

[kkfeb04]

Every body should enjoy the food they eat, what's the point of eating? No one wants their chicken to die in vain.

Tell him he's a jerk and if he wouldn't be so jerky that he can come with otherwise, he can't go and ruin girls' day at the beach.

[thedahliharpa]

A day away may do you good and the day off may do him good. I hate when there is tension and we are with the family. On the other hand a carefree day as a family outside the home and your normal stresses could be good?

Either way I hope you get to the other side of this soon. Hugs.

[eav2c]

I am really sorry, Cat. If you need a day without him, take it, absolutely. I do hope you two can talk it out soon as I don't want you to be stressed or sad. Big hugs to you.

[AndyCohen]

I think if you don't think you can put it aside for the day then he shouldn't go and maybe do something on his own. A tense day of not talking in front of your sister isn't going to help matters.

[AndyCohen]

Arg hit post before I was done. Big hugs to you and I hope you guys can resolve whatever it is. If you ever need to vent, we're here.

[biblionerd]

Aww, I'm so sorry. If you're not made up I would definitely tell him to make other plans. There's no point in ruining everyone's day when you could enjoy it with your sister!

[cat19]

I'll bring it up today, while he's at work so I can do it over IM. Yep. That's how this will go down.

[raynes]

I'm sorry Cat. I hope your IM chat goes over well. I hate it when we're in a not talking funk.

[cat19]

He spoke to me this morning - told me that the pool should be ready in a couple of hours. And that there was some dirt he couldn't get up. Very exciting conversation. We have not been able to use the pool since we came back from Hershey.

[UnicornDog]

Why are guys dicks to their pregnant wives? It is a time in your life when you most need him to not be a dick. I'm sorry he doesn't understand that. I hope you can enjoy the day one way or another.