Tell me about your TTC sex

[jfh]

I'm sure this is a sensitive topic for some, so I apologize if it's depressing.

Our TTC sex is just goofy. Like, we all know it's going down, so there's this weird sense of impending sex while we're brushing our teeth and whatnot. But not in a hot anticipation way, it's more like, Let's get these teeth brushed so we can get the rest of our "chores" done, ha ha! Then when we get in  bed we spend a good half-hour cracking jokes about it, which makes it hard to be all, Oh yeah, let's get it ooooooon.....it's just impossible to make it sexy. I mean, guys, DH makes his penis talk to me. It's hilarious, but awfully hard to go from that to sexing it up. Stop looking at me, penis!

[TrudyCampbell]

We are kind of the same way. If I'm really in the mood it can be sexy sex but there's a lot of scheduled, boring sex.

[Deleted]

Our's involves a room full of people, me in stirups trying to stay positive while my chucky is open for everyone to have a peak. Doctor insterts embryo, DH holding my hand. Very Hot Very Steamy!

[laurack]

icky. PCD uuuuggggh I really do not like this part of TTC (not the sex, the PCD lol)

The night before last I got my darkest line yet on a OPK (not a positive) so before bed I said, don't masturbate because we are having sex tomorrow night and I want you to save those spermies up! very sexy. Then last night I was trying to clean the kitchen and probe and he kept saying "ahem" and such. then I went to the basement to go through baby clothes and he followed me down saying stuff about sex, and wanting to see my panties. so eventually I said FINE FINE lets do it.

Its very sexy

[TrudyCampbell]

Jul 17, 2013 10:48:29 GMT -5 @tambcat said:

lol @ don't masturbate b/c we need to make a baby.

wait, actually I think I might have said something similar to my H when we were ttc before.

I have been saying this daily. I'm not holding off on every day sex just for him to blow his load elsewhere! That's prob why I had the dream he was cheating but I was only mad because of the wasted sperm.

[laurack]

Jul 17, 2013 10:52:26 GMT -5 TrudyCampbell said:

Jul 17, 2013 10:48:29 GMT -5 @tambcat said:

lol @ don't masturbate b/c we need to make a baby.

wait, actually I think I might have said something similar to my H when we were ttc before.

I have been saying this daily. I'm not holding off on every day sex just for him to blow his load elsewhere! That's prob why I had the dream he was cheating but I was only mad because of the wasted sperm.

lol!!!!

[Beener]

It is boring and routine. Me: "we need to have sex today." Him: "ok."

Or

Me: "I'm ovulating but I'm tired. Can you make it a quickie?"

[steph196]

Ours was super hot...yeah, right! So boring! After a year of trying, it got even less sexy when I was pumped full of hormones and would have hot flashes in the middle of our scheduled sex. 

[shevacc]

DH is happy to remain blissfully unaware of TTC so it's been fun so far. But we're not yet at every other day and I'm still sooooo confused about charting. So I'm not even sure of the "right time". He's just happy to have me instigate for a change.

[Deleted]

I've never had TTC sex, you guys aren't making it sound very fun!

[creamsiclechica]

In the beginning, it was fun and funny. And obviously, Matt was thrilled we were boning so much, lol. We managed to make it hot for awhile, I stocked up on a bunch of lingerie, etc. Then, when things were really bad and not working, it was awful. For both of us. He was truly tired, and I'd get very, very upset if he didn't or couldn't do it. We both hated scheduling it after awhile.

But, once we had a deployment in between, it was too easy to bring some romance back because we were a year sex deprived lol. I am fairly certain that the night we conceived A, there was some tying up to the bed involved

This time, we tried to make it less pressured and agreed to make all effort to do it close to when we thought ovulation was happening, but not to beat ourselves up if we couldn't, because it was harder with a non sleeping kiddo. I was shocked as hell at this BFP, because well, I told him I didn't remember having sex at all in February I was so tired, haha.

And I've definitely threatened him for masturbation. That's precious resources, man!

[Faevantastic]

Last weekend when Evan was taking a long nap.

"Wow. He's been asleep for awhile."

"Yeah, it's awesome."

"Are you ovulating?"

"Nope."

"Oh."

Them we just go back to what we were doing. Lol.

[fusion]

With Jameson it became high pressured since it had been a while of trying with a 9 week miscarriage and I was all crazy on edge. Sometimes he had performance anxiety and that sucked. But the day we conceived (Jan 1, 2010), his precious Ohio State team won the Rose Bowl, and he was more than happy to oblige, ha.
Anna was fun sex, we weren't pressured about it.
The past few months have been somewhat boring. Just a lot of extraneous stress with the two kids and some other things. H usually just won't shut up about mundane things unless he's drunk, and he doesn't drink often.

[formerlyllizzyb]

"We need to have sex tonight."

"Ok."

Or I wear panties I know he likes and let him sneak a peek.

I pretty much only want sex when I'm ovulating. Otherwise I have no libido. So that works out...I guess?

We're used to the awkward/boring part of TTC sex after it took so long to conceive G.

[thedahliharpa]

Jul 17, 2013 10:52:26 GMT -5 TrudyCampbell said:

Jul 17, 2013 10:48:29 GMT -5 @tambcat said:

lol @ don't masturbate b/c we need to make a baby.

wait, actually I think I might have said something similar to my H when we were ttc before.

I have been saying this daily. I'm not holding off on every day sex just for him to blow his load elsewhere! That's prob why I had the dream he was cheating but I was only mad because of the wasted sperm.

OMG Trudy! CMH!